Woman Accuses Tinder Date Of Talking To Other Women Because He Can't Hang Out With Her During Work Hours

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May 11, 2022 3:00 PM EDT

We're all adults, and that comes with busy schedules. That's why we're rescheduling dates with friends so often. Even though we want to put them first, responsibilities and deadlines come up. They're understanding about it because they get the responsibilities that come with the grind since they're dealing with it too. There are no hard feelings because we're all going through the same struggle. Sometimes, our nights end up being free, but we're so exhausted from the busy day that we end up cancelling on plans anyways because we won't be able to function without our beauty sleep. The star of today's Nice Girls post is probably the one adult in the country that doesn't understand that people have different working hours, and as a result, they won't be able to hang out on demand. She accused her Tinder date of talking to other women because he couldn't hang out the hours she was free, even though he told her he would love to spend time with her when he's free. Scroll down for all the ridiculous details. 

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    Font - Posted by u/Awkward_Bisexual_ 4 days ago 22 3 2 This was posted on r/niceguys (but was deleted) and definitely belongs here. The last image is what the OP decided to say in the comments to justify herself.
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    Apparently, the woman in question believed she was in the right when she posted this conversation in a different subreddit. She was clearly in the wrong, which is how the conversation ended up being posted in a different subreddit. 

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    Font - 1 OP • 16m Everyone commenting that this is an O r/NiceGirls behavior. That place is full of assholes and I'm not an asshole. People always tell me l'm nice and beautiful. Guys and older men always want to get with me.
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    Oh honey, somebody needs to give you a reality check. 

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    Product - this is . Sorry for not letting you know that I made it home 09:53 safe the other night. I had a fun time and thought you were a nice change from the guys I usually see 09:54 But once I'm done with my last final today, we should hang out a few times 09:56 per week
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    Sky - Glad you made it home that night! I know there can be some cops out trying trap drivers late at night. When you down to go out again? 10:06 The sooner the better and anytime 10:09 works for me!
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    Sky - Oops I missed the "hang a few times per week" I work a lot and would only be able to hang out Sunday nights or certain Mondays. Hanging a few times per week might get hard to achieve. 10:13 Unless we hang out in the evenings after 7 10:14
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    Green - Why only in the evenings? If you work a lot you should get weekends off. Unless you don't work and are talking to someone else? I can see you just want to do other things. Why would else would you suggest evenings only 10:16 or one day a week?
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    Product - You tinder guys are all the same 10:17 You're either talking to someone else or are embarrassed by me? Tell me 10:18 that I'm wrong
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    Product - No, I just work all the time. I told you this the other night and on Tinder? 13:53 You ask me to hang out and say anytime is good but when I state the only times I can go out, you shoot me down. 13:54 I thought we had a good thing going when we met up. I also thought we had a good understanding of each other and our aspirations in life post college. But yeah sure all tinder guys are the same 13:56
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    Font - If you want to do stuff in the evening, I automatically associate that with people who just want to hook up. I'd rather start in the afternoon and let it 17:49 extend into the evening. Okay, I understand that completely. However, I'm giving you the time of day that coincides with my free time. I can't leave my work in the middle of a shift, especially if I'm running a money game. 18:23
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    Green - You're giving me the time of day??? Other way around 19:19
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    Product - If you don't want to have a second date, just tell me that. Don't be stringing me along by saying "anytime works". Only to then shoot down the only free time I get. 19:28 Id appreciate to see or hear the honesty firsthand but I doubt it. You didn't seem this hostile on tinder or in person? 19:30
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    Rectangle - Ganceany · 4 days ago Lmao what a tool bag. I'm glad for the dude he dodged a bullet. The OP of that post sounds like she needs some reality check, definitely is giving off "sheltered princess" vibes.
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    Font - JamesPotterPro · 4 days ago Did she really horribly misunderstand the "I'm giving you the time of day that I'm free" as "I'm giving you the time of day"? (which isn't even how the expression is used) I can't believe this shit..
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    Font - YOMommazNUTZ · 4 days ago Yeah, that is some super Karen/nice girl act! Dude tried explaining himself multiple times even with her crap and she was nutty about it
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    Human body - db1000c 4 days ago It's amazing how much comprehension is lacking. She's either got poor reading skills or is an asshole deliberately trying to trip him up on his words.
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