Couple Fights Because Fiancé's Mother Keeps Giving Daughter-in-Law Ugly Frog Jewelry

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    Font - r/AmItheAhole Posted by u/jellysmoker 35 minutes ago AITA for disliking weird presents from inlaws? Tldr: fiancé's mother gives me fugly children's jewelry, which led to a fight between me and fiancé. Fiancé was visiting my inlaws to share the news of our engagement. During which MIL gave fiancé a present for me. D Fiancé gets home and lets me know that the present is a pair of frog earrings. They were visibly unattractive, and obviously belong to little girls. Last year I also got tiny f
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    Font - I was a bit upset receiving the jewelry, fiancé noticed asked me what's wrong. I said the present is kinda thoughtless and obviously not a fit for adults. (Meanwhile my parents gift us trips and constantly make thoughtful gestures toward fiancé.) The weird present made me feel like his parents don't really like me that much. Since no person ever will think "frog jewelry is something she obviously needs!" or "I bet frog jewelry will make her happy!"
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    Font - Now we are in a one sided fight because he thinks I'm snobby and He also thinks I'm materialistic. being mean to his mother. Honestly if he didn't ask I'd keep this opinion to myself. Now the longer we fight the more it actually affects me. I'm actually feeling quite resentful for getting only stupid frog stuff, and made feel guilty for not liking it. :)
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    Font - GlitteringPaint899 A hole Enthusiast [9] 19 min. ago YTA Your fiancé is right, you are materialistic and snobby, just by the way you said my parents gift us trips and thoughtful gestures. Really? Have you thought that maybe his mother likes the frog jewelry and she gives it to you because it has special meaning to her? Maybe they can't afford your type of thoughtful gestures, but she wanted to give you something. Your attitude may cause your fiancé to rethink the relationship.
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    Font - stacity 14 min. ago Professor Emerita [71] YTA For comparing your in-laws gifts to your parents. It does make you appear snobby and ungrateful when you mentioned your parents gifted you both trips in-spite of your frog earrings. Count this as a blessing that your MIL wanted to do some nice gesture to you.
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    Font - oftheocean13. 17 min. ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] NTA. Some people are just terrible at giving gifts. I'd take them and promptly pop them into my car to donate somewhere. I'd also never take much time to offer a super nice gift to her, it's obviously not her thing. Not worth a huge fight, just donate everything she gives to you and maybe as time goes on your fiancé can offer ideas to her of what you'd actually like receiving.
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    Font - Relevant-Zebra-9682 25 min. ago NTA. After years of getting stuff from my SO's parents that I didn't like, colors that I hate, and socks that don't fit... I get joy from throwing them in the trash now. I don't owe them anything at this point and seeing it is just a reminder of something I don't like (so why hold onto it?)... they enjoy giving gifts more than actually care about whether I like or would use something (narcs). Say thanks & pitch it (if they ask why you aren't wearing them th

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