People Discuss Their Experiences Dating Someone Who Clearly Wasn't Over Their Ex (Twitter Thread)

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    Font - gaia @gaialect i decided to stop dating when i found out there are people who date you for 3 months or more while not being over their ex in the slightest. like the whole time they are still in love with someone else and trying to convince you that they aren't. i'm- no thank you. 6:51 AM - Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - gaia @gaialect and no i'm not talking about people who make it obvious they're emotionally unavailable. no. this person will be trying to convince themselves they're ready to move on, whole time they're not. they do the whole song and dance of a relationship with you too, dreaming about them. 6:53 AM Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - Mint @mint_tibb Replying to @gaialect I recently had a conversation with a married friend and he told me once you have truly loved someone you never stop loving them. It doesn't mean you want to be with them. Understanding this has made my love life much easier. 3:00 PM - Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - Hannah @atelierkth Replying to @gaialect That is plain awful. Or the people who treat you like you're important, shower you with love & affection but phased out after a few weeks because they found someone else. Some just uses people as a temporary fun before they find an easier option. No more dating. Thanks, next. 6:55 AM - Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - Laura @synthetxplastic Replying to @gaialect I stop dating because I realized how unfair it was to date someone while always comparing them or thinking about someone else. It was the best choice because I'm not wasting someone's time or my own time trying to please some egoistical part of myself. 2:52 PM Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - @triviaparadise Replying to @gaialect My problem is that every time I go on a date with someone new, they try to touch me sand be intimate early. I just met you and I don't know anything about you but you keep tryna touch me in inappropriate ways. It makes me feel paranoid that I'm being used for my body 12:35 PM. Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - Carly Whiteside | Astrologer @NNS_Astrology11 Replying to @gaialect I heard that the most dangerous person to date is the one that wants ALL the benefits of a relationship but doesn't want to put in any of the emotional labor. When things get tough they check out. It's painful bc all the showering of gifts and love made you believe otherwise. 1:27 PM - Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - laura Wynn @Dexmom317Wynn Replying to @gaialect Or the wanna smash, hang out, go on dates,cuddle, play house, borrow your car etc but when you say you need a commitment they get "I don't know about all THAT now". 12:03 PM. Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - Kemi Marie @kemimarie Replying to @gaialect i have indeed adopted the mindset of not messing w/ ppl who aren't over their exes 6:55 AM - Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - proud owner of a kia soul @dietdisco Replying to @gaialect one time I asked a guy (while we were on a date) if he was over his ex and he LAUGHED and said "no" 7:47 PM. Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for iPhone
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    Font - * Natasha * @fleurdwoman Replying to @gaialect Yep!! 3 months is about when he let it slip that they weren't actually divorced. If their ex comes up waaaay too often, it isn't just sharing your past to connect, they aren't over them. Run! 4:13 PM Sep 13, 2022 Twitter for Android
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    Font - Kevin G @Riginalredhead Replying to @gaialect That's an absolutely crazy reason to stop dating. Try a better vetting process... thatd be like me saying I'm not gonna drive anymore cause I heard there was a guy that intentionally hit someone else at some point. Yea it happens, not the norm. 1:52 PM. Sep 13, 2022. Twitter for Android

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