Woman's Ex-Boyfriend Calls the Cops When He Moves Out, She Mocks Him With a Cop Photo Shoot

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    Font - r/AmItheAhole. Posted by u/Extension Present15 16 hours ago 33 36 AITA for doing a cop photo shoot because of what my ex did? Throwaway, just in case. I (21f) just got out of a 4-year relationship with my HS sweetheart (21m). We were so in love that I changed my college plans to go to the same school as him (at his request). We've been living together in the same apartment for most of our time at school and planned on staying in it until we graduate next spring.
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    Font - About three weeks ago he decided he was done and it broke my heart. I was, and am, devastated and my whole world feels like it's upside down. Even though it hurt, the break up conversation was amicable. I cried and asked why. He said he didn't love me anymore and that he was going to move out when he could get some friends to help him. Then he went and slept on the couch for the rest of the week. At first I thought he was being classy about things.
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    Font - Until it was time for him to move out. He said he'd be moving his things out during the day on Friday while I was in class, but when I got home everything was still here. He showed up at about 7pm (right as all our neighbors were getting ready to go out for the evening), with his buddies and two cop cars that sat in the parking lot right outside our apartment with their lights on the whole time he gathered his stuff. I was mortified. Our relationship was not violent or dramatic or anythin
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    Font - I still don't know why he wanted police there while he took his stuff out of the apartment, but I spent the week after having to answer questions about it from everyone we know (word traveled fast). The next weekend, my best friend showed up unannounced with a bottle of wine and two Party City cop costumes to try and cheer me up. We took all sorts of goofy pictures of her handcuffing me and both of us trying to look stern. It was the first time I smiled since the breakup and I decided to
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    Font - I woke up the next morning to texts from him and a bunch of his buddies saying how terrible I am and that I should be ashamed for making fun of him. I'm honestly just trying to move on with my life and heal with humor, but maybe I was petty for posting the pics. 709 Comments + Award
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    Font - TU Beancaped 16 hr. ago ΝΤΑ He's your ex now, he doesn't get to comment on your posts. Even if he did, though, you were just trying to have fun - well done on bouncing back! INFO - Did you ever learn why he brought the cops? 11.4k Reply Share
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    Font - ExtensionPresent15 OP. 16 hr. ago A friend of a friend said he was afraid my dad would be there. My dad is a pretty big guy, but super non- confrontational and lives on the other side of the state... and my ex knows both of those things. ✩ 6.5k Reply Share
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    Font - or Ankchen 12 hr. ago That would not exactly be a super unusual scenario though. Most HS sweetheart relationships don't survive, because they are in no shape or form fully developed people and personalities at that time, and sometimes people just develop in different directions and drift apart. Sure it hurts for a bit, but it's also normal and does not make either one of them a bad person. 1.5k Reply Sha
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    Font - TheRedditGirl15. 12 hr. ago Part pant [1] Eh youre right that it's not unusual but he could at least say it like "we just kind of grew apart as individuals" and not "I dont love you anymore" 382 Reply Share
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    Font - TechnicianPerfect1. 9 hr. ago Nah, this guy sounds like a complete jerk, just admit you really screwed up, asking her to switch colleges and take it like a man, that's why he brought the cops bcuz he knew he messed up big time, growing pains, fine, jerk pains, no. 32 Reply Share
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    Font - Syric13 11 hr. ago A hole Enthusiast [7] eh, teens in high school do stupid stuff. at least they didn't get pregnant at 17, married at 17, grandma at 32, great grandma at 50. better to remove that bandaid quickly while you are still young and have your entire life ahead of you. i don't blame him for falling out of love, i blame him for literally everything else. 46 Reply Share
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    Font - M lrg-inbv55 10 hr. ago The reason young girls should not make life decisions based on their boyfriends plans, because life and maturity will happen and chances are one of you will want to end it. Sorry this happened but in the future you will see this was for the best and he did you a favor. You have never had any other relationships, cuz you were to wrapped up in him. Your single now DO NOT look for another guy, take this time to enjoy yourself and have fun and decide what you really wa
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    Font - FauveSxMcW 5 hr. ago The best gift you can give yourself is to enjoy your own company, which makes you more secure in yourself and the added benefit of being better company for your next partner. I hope you get to travel and go and see shows, read books, drink tea etc
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    Font - ImKiliW 5 hr. ago If he'd really been that afraid, why would he continue to sleep in the apartment for the rest of the week / several nights? Nah.... if she was violent, he'd have stayed with one of those buddies who so seriously have his back.... even when he's being an AH.
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    Font - savory_thing 12 hr. ago Part ipant [1] He's your ex now, it doesn't matter, block him and his friends and don't look back. ↑ 56 + Reply Share

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