You can be many different kinds of guys as an adult. Once you stop being a silly little student (a nerd, a jock, etc.), it's important to consider which type of guy you'd like to be. You can be a wife guy or an open-mic guy, but one of my favorite types of guys is the urbanist. Urbanists are basically city-planning guys, but it sounds much cooler when you call them urbanists. Or it sounds much less cool, depending on who you're asking. I follow many urbanists on Twitter dot com, and they give me far more inspiration regarding how I want to live my life than any corny NYC TikToker will. These dudes walk around cities, take public transit everywhere, and generally stand against the NIMBYism (Not In My Backyard) that makes the suburbs a hellscape to try and live in. If you're a public transit and affordable housing fan, these urbanist memes might tickle your city boy fancy.