‘Eliminate toxic friends’: 20+ blunt pieces of advice to avoid regrets in your 30s and 40s

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    Font - r/AskReddit Posted by u/Professional_Lab7394 9 days ago 732 What should one do in their 20s to avoid regrets in their 30s and 40s? 6.7k Comments + Award Share
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    Font - Neckfeared42069 - 9 days ago 2012 S If you're in a relationship that is making you feel bad more often than good - end it sooner rather than later. 17.0k Reply Share
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    Font - shpiffeh 9 days ago S If your relationship is great half the time and terrible half the time, then your relationship is terrible. 8.1k Reply Share
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    Font - . theyusedthelamppost 9 days ago 2 S & 2 More take care of your teeth 14.6k Reply Share
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    Font - . UltraRomero7 - 9 days ago 2 32 Exercise. Staying in shape is easier than getting in shape Reply Share 11.7k
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    Font - Scandalous2ndWaffle 9 days ago Don't live on credit, do not destroy your credit, and take care of your teeth. 10.7k Reply Share
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    Font - steerbell 9 days ago . S2 There is good advice here so I won't repeat. Have two hobbies. One that is of interest to you and you are happy doing it alone. The other one try to have it be with other people. Preferably one of them has you getting outdoors often. They can be the same example: fixing bikes but also going on rides with friends. Photography and bird watching. Practicing a instrument and being in a band. 7.6k Reply Share
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    Font - Ok_Island254 9 days ago . S2 Have a few close friends but keep making new ones. I'm all for making your own way, but you'd be shocked to know how many people got to where they are because they knew someone who knew someone. It can only help you and maybe you can pay it forward down the line. 6.9k Reply Share
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    Rectangle - Disastrous-Layer3244 9 days ago I'm 29 trying to fit all this into 300days Imfao 5.6k Reply Share
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    Font - VeryLongSurname 9 days ago Reading the comments like I'm still in my 20s... 4.4k Reply Share
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    Font - UselessMoney 9 days ago Be open to trying new things, life comes at you fast after 30. And start funding your retirement if you can afford it (lol). Reply Share 3.3k
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    Font - Brandon_Milk 9 days ago Don't listen to music with headphones too loud. Also bring earplugs to concerts. That shit can blow out your eardrums and tinnitus is fu horrible 3.3k Reply Share
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    Facial expression - No-Art-90339 days ago Spend time with relatives that probably won't be there in your 40s Reply Share 3.1k
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    Font - mostlygray 9 days ago I wish I'd actually taken some time off for myself. All I did was work through my 20's. Never took more than a week here or a week there. Always with family. Now I'm in my 40's. I'm not making as much money as I did in my 20's but I'm too burned out to bother from over-work and over-stress. Take the da trip. Even if it sucks, do it anyway so you can at least say that you took the time to try to enjoy yourself instead of ruined your health for someone else to get rich
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    Font - Rolsan 9 days ago Wear sunscreen 4 . 1.6k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - mroinks 9 days ago Don't do something stupid & hurt your back. 1.6k Reply Share
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    Font - pakiizah 9 days ago edited 9 days ago • Invest in a skin care routine. Vitamin C and SPF every single day no matter the weather. Retinol 4-5 days a week. • Start therapy sooner. Therapy is about maintenance, like an oil change. Don't wait for your lowest breaking point to seek it out. • Take care of your body. Eat well, exercise regularly, stay active. Emphasize strength training/weight lifting - it's far more important than chronic cardio. • Travel often. With your family, and with your
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    Font - • Seize opportunities as they come. We often regret the things we don't do, more than the things we do. • Don't get into relationships which you know have an expiration date. Be purposeful in your romantic pursuits while keeping the long-term goal in mind, if a long-term relationship is what you want. • Learn how to cook. You don't have to be a master chef, but have at least 5 easy go-to recipes.
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    Font - • Start thinking about how you want to make a social impact on the world. Make a commitment to yourself to be kind and compassionate, especially to those less fortunate than you. • Find hobbies and activities to stay fulfilled. Try to stay committed to at least one or two of them when life gets busier. • Develop a sellable skill that will come in handy in your professional life. • Become financially independent. 1.5k Reply Share
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    Font - Independent-Ad3901 9 days ago Say yes to going to dinners, parties, birthdays, etc. even if you have work the next day or don't feel like it. Most people lose 90% of their friends in their 20's. 1.5k Reply Share
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    Font - HardcoreWillNeverDie 9 days ago Don't wrap up all your hopes in dreams in one person. Reply Share 1.3k
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    Font - DrunkTankGunner 9 days ago Don't buy anything you can't pay for in full (except maybe a house). Reply Share 522
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    Font - OkPenis-ist28 - 9 days ago Invest in yourself. Eliminate toxic "friends", relatives and relationships. It is better to be single than be tortured. Buy the best shoes and the best mattress you can afford. Don't measure your success by the size of your bank account. Learn to happy and positive. Enjoy the good times - learn from the bad times. 408 Reply Share ...
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    Font - gomezthekiller - 9 days ago Save twice as much as you're currently saving. Drink half as much as you're currently drinking. 259 Reply Share

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