'Well he didn't cheat on ME' : Selfish Daughter Denies Her Mother Empathy When Her Dad’s Cheating Gets Another Woman Pregnant, Leading To Family Drama and No Contact

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    Font - Posted by u/Unhappy-Tip-9500 2 days ago F 2 AITA for moving in with my dad after he and my mother separated? A hole I'm 18F, I've got a sibling who's a few months old now. My parents (37F and 42M) separated 9 months ago, for 2 months then got back together and permanently separated 3 months ago. My parents were each others first relationship, something I've overheard my dad complaining about. A while ago we went through a tough period, my mother got pregnant and 5 months in misc_ied, a
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    Font - month later it turned out that my dad had been having an affair - my parents tried to work it out, found out the AP was pregnant and that was the end of it. When they separated my dad wanted to make it work, so when my mother said she was moving into grandmas (7 hours away) dad asked if I'd live with him, thinking it'd bring mum home. Mum begged me to go with her, I didn't I believed it was best because a) school/friends and I did believe my parents could work through it. They didn't, dad
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    Font - I texted back asking if she expected me to move friends/family/school, my dad didn't cheat away from on me! And they could've moved past it because it was only because they were going through a hard time. No response, I think I've been blocked. I didn't text because I haven't been able to pay my phone bill. AITA? I don't think I am.
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    Font - ldp1640 2 days ago Partassipant [3] 433 NTA for not moving, but YTA for not contacting your mom at all. She's recently gone through a divorce, misc. iage, and her lifelong partner having an affair and getting another woman pregnant. That's a lot to go through alone. Yeah, she's an adult, but it doesn't mean you can't check in on her to see how she is. Also, the response "he didn't cheat on me" is plain insensitive. It's also odd to blame her for the divorce. Yeah, they could've possibly m
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    Font - cheated on? Also, you willingly let your dad use you as a tactic to manipulate your mom into forgiving him after her had an affair is just gross. Don't you think your mom deserves better? I understand being young and not wanting to leave your friends and life, but at least have a shred empathy for your mom. Reply Share 24.4k
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    Font - throwawayimclueless 2 days ago Partassipant [1] iage, Op is definitely self centered on this. Anyone with an ounce of compassion could understand why a mis infidelity, and betrayal could be hard on a person but she chooses not to give a shit. 7.4k Reply Share Quick-Store2989 - 2 days ago Well op wasn't cheated on. Wait till dad favors the new baby more and she feels left out and not part of the new family..., lol 4.4k Reply Share
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    Font - Living-Cheesecake-48 · 2 days ago OP will be part of the new family - - the babysitting part - Reply Share 3.3k AggravatingReveal397 - 1 day ago He doesn't even make sure she's got a working cell phone. Hopefully she smartens up. 1.9k Reply Share
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    Font - pammademedothis But the lady who got pregnant by a married man is cool, so it's okay. /s 1.0k THIS. 1 day ago Hanabanana86 - 1 day ago 112 Reply Share Reply Share
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    Font - IwannaBAtapdancer 1 day ago What is AP? Affair Partner? Adultery Person? Aforementioned Pilferer? Ahole Philanderer? Sorry. Seriously asking, but also having fun playing with the asterisks 160 Reply Share
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    Font - Ancient Potential285 2 days ago Not to mention, recovering a marriage after infidelity is extremely difficult. Add in a child resulting from the affair, and you have a lifelong reminder of just how much you were betrayed. I do not think it would be so easy to just "get past" something like that. 876 Reply Share

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