'It kept getting worse': Guy breaks up with girlfriend because she's too obsessed with KPOP boy band

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    Font - Breaking because up with my GF of being a fangirl My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years, we started dating since we were 16 and now both of us are 23 years old. She became a BTS fan when she was 18 and ever since then it kept getting worse, she changed her instagram name and profile picture into of the BTS member. Her whole feed on Instagram, Pinterest, TikTok, YouTube, Wallpaper is full of BTS! I didn't mind it at first because that's what typical 16 years old girls do so I
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    Font - She went from a mature girl to the most childish person I've ever met. She went from the person I loved the most to the person I hate the most. I dislike her so much that I don't care about her feelings anymore and I will break up with her tomorrow. I'm a bit shocked too because I've never hated a person before
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    Font - artparade 2 hr. ago I have no feelings about K-POP but this sounds more like an obsession than being a fangirl 301 Reply Share
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    Font - aScottishBoat. 48 min. ago May I introduce the worldwide phenomena called, "The BTS Army." 87 Reply Share
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    Font - Jurassic ParkTrekWars. 2 hr. ago I have a friend who ended a whole marriage over this exact scenario. I get it.
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    Rectangle - PinkSunshine13 - 3 hr. ago Pied Piper 239 Reply Share Bookluster 2 hr. ago that was my first thought. "Now stop watching and study/ Your parents and bosses hate me,"
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    Font - DistributionHuge8163 7 hr. ago Although I dislike k-pop I think there's nothing wrong with liking it. HOWEVER, there is a difference between liking something and being obsessed with something. If its taken over her whole life then I'd say you're doing something most people would do in your situation 621 Reply Share
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    Font - Worldly Economist2699. 4 hr. ago Do one of those personalized video messages from a bts member, pay him like 50 to relay your message from you 770 Reply Share
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    Font - SnowAmethyst32. 1 hr. ago I'm a fan but i don't think this is how fangirl works. That's obsession, the next thing you'll knew she would be crying because one of them gets married
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    Font - Resident-Earth-8212. 4 hr. ago She sounds obsessed with it. I can see how that could totally interfere with your relationship. What is her level of awareness for how intrusive this is ? When you tried to talk to her about it, what did she say? I'm just wondering if she doesn't really get that you are so annoyed by it that you are prepared to end things. Sorry this is happening OP. Sometimes distance is helpful to relationships, it sounds like yours may have been one of those times :/ 109
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    Font - Any-Structure1309. 2 hr. ago Sound like you just a different person now and have matured; just break it off already. The relationship has run its course. Good luck
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    Font - OrokaSempai 2 hr. ago You started dating young, you were both developing as people. You have both literally .changed as people over those years, you are not the same guy, she is not the same girl... unfortunatly it happens. Its not for you, you wouldnt be attracted to that kind of person... if they wish to keep being that person, then its time to either learn to live with it or move on, and both choices are okay. You have chosen to move on, your choice now is how you handle it, burn bridg
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    Facial expression - vesieco 2 hr. ago Celebrity worship is a mental illness
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    Font - Brian57831 5 hr. ago You don't finish growing up until you are around 25. People before that age tend to still drastically change in personality. It seems that you have diverged far enough that you are no longer compatible. That is OK, people at that age change all the time and some things aren't meant to last forever. So just break up and look for someone who is now more compatible with the new you.
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    Font - gabby0197 3 hr. ago I had a friend that was obsessed with One Direction when she was like 16. When I stopped living with her, she was 23, and an avid member of a Facebook group that was named something akin to "Directioners Over 20." It was weird how long and how hardcore she remained absolutely obsessed with them and others.
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    Font - Alternative-Depth-16. 4 hr. ago You're making the right decision. You tried to talk, she wouldn't even listen. Nothing else you can do about that.
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    Font - JoeKingQueen. 3 hr. ago You're doing the right thing by splitting up. You don't have to include negative emotions and hate with it though. It's the right thing to do because you guys aren't right for each other, you're not into fangirls so she needs someone who's cool with it and you need someone who isn't it.
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    Font - I know it can feel like a big deal after so much time invested with someone. But honestly the hate only hurts yourself if you're going to do what you need to do anyway. Get pumped about checking out tinder instead, stay optimistic and hopefully neither of you will get hurt too badly by the breakup.

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