'She would always refer to her boyfriend as daddy': Girl gets kicked out of party after calling her BF 'Daddy' all night, internet reacts

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    Mouth - "AITA for kicking a girl out of my party for calling her boyfriend 'daddy?""
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    Font - AITA for kicking a girl out of my party for calling her boyfriend "daddy?" I (F24) was hosting a small-scale hangout with about 15 friends. One girl (F23) is an acquaintance of mine and she came with her boyfriend. We were all sitting around in the main room and eating pizza when she came to sit and sat on her boyfriend's lap. A little weird since there were open seats, but I didn't say anything.
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    Font - While we were talking as a group, she would always refer to her boyfriend as "daddy." She would interject with things like "daddy just bought me a new stand mixer" and "daddy looks so handsome in this shirt right! I told him to get it!"
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    Font - At first, we thought she was joking or messing with us, but she continued doing it and the rest of us were side-eyeing each other and were kind of uncomfortable.
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    Font - I asked her if she could save the pet names for home because some of us were feeling uncomfortable. She got upset and told me to stop making such a big deal over a nickname and sl shaming her. I told her that wasn't my intention at all, but I would appreciate if she could stop because it was killing the vibe.
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    Font - She started ranting at me about a whole lot of stuff, and I just told her and her boyfriend to please leave. Her boyfriend was pissed too but they eventually got out.
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    Font - The rest of the evening was less uncomfortable and way more peaceful (a few of my friends who didn't know the girl I kicked thanked me for making her leave), but we all felt kind of awkward because of what happened. AITA?
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    Font - Ratched Angle 14 hr. ago sl-shaming She told on herself, right there. She feels insecure about her suality, which is why she feels the need to parade it around at a party in the hopes that people will validate her.
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    Font - As soon as everyone (rightfully) got uncomfortable, her worst insecurities were confirmed and she had a meltdown. People keep confusing "tolerance for alternative sualities" with "yeah, I'm totally fine witnessing this with my own two eyes in a public setting."
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    Font - Telling someone "I don't want to see or hear about your s life" is not the same as telling them "you should be ashamed of your s life." And it's obvious that there's a component to her calling him daddy. NTA. 10.3k Reply Share
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    Font - ScratchForward1769. 13 hr. ago At the same time, she sounds like she wanted to be the center of attention and didn't like the attention it got her, so she lashed out. OP, you're NTA 3.0k Reply S
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    Font - crotch_lake 14 hr. ago . I (F24) was hosting... NTA. Your party. What you say goes. 1.8k Reply Share
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    Font - jrm1102 14 hr. ago NTA - If you just kicked her out without explaining this to her it'd be different. But you told her she was making people uncomfortable and she didnt care. She has to go. 773 Reply Share
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    Font - bmyst70 14 hr. ago ΝΤΑ The girl failed at being a good guest at your party. She was informed politely to save the pet names for home. Then, she said you were sli shaming her. Interesting choice of thought from her, yes? That she assumed your not liking the pet name "daddy" was sl shaming? Sounds like someone believes they are acting like one and it's not you.
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    Font - Then she started ranting and being a total AH. She deserved to be booted from the party. And, I assume you won't be inviting her to any other parties after the drama she created at this one. Rule 1 of being a good guest is to respect the hosts' requests. She refused to do that. So insisting she leave is ΝΤΑ. ↑ 667 Reply Share
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    Font - Dragon Master7433 14 hr. ago NTA, although the title is misleading. You didn't kick her out for calling her bf "daddy", you kicked her out because she started yelling at you in your own home when you politely asked her to stop using the nickname (of a potentially s nature) as it was making everyone uncomfortable. 277 Reply Share
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    Font - HannahPoppyMommy. 13 hr. ago NTA. 1. It is your party. 2. At first you didn't really ask her to leave. You politely just asked her to use the nickname somewhere else. 3. You did not sli shame her. Yet she got so defensive and accused you of doing so. 4. She was the one who caused a scene. 5. And yes, "daddy" to address a BF is just plain weird. 182 Reply Share
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    Font - Slight_Asparagus4150. 14 hr. ago NTA. She was using a pretty controversial nickname for her bf and just reading this, it feels like she was pulling you into a dynamic the way she was going on with it and the accusation of sl shaming. 95 Reply Share

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