'YTA. Holy moly': Woman roasted online for 'cruel' remark about SIL's miscarriages, husband attempts to redeem her and receives the same treatment.

Brad Dickson • Managing Editor

Mar 2, 2023 9:00 AM EST

Sometimes, you need to know when to quit and when to walk away. Sometimes, you should also learn to take advice the first time it's given to you… especially when you directly asked for it.

This couple would do well to learn this and listen to the advice they received from Reddit's r/AmItheA**hole community this week. The pair made separate posts to the sub to see whether or not the wife was in the wrong for her comments to her husband's sister. Her sister-in-law offered her some advice about the pain of giving birth that she took the wrong way, prompting a cruel lashing response regarding her sister-in-law's miscarriages.

When the wife found herself getting roasted by responses to her original post (the first post below), getting downvoted and resoundingly admonished, her husband posted from a different account to try and give an "outside" perspective of the situation. The result was the same, with commenters declaring the couple to be the "a-holes" yet again. The pair was told to apologize and beg forgiveness from the husband's sister; we can only hope for another update in which the couple reports making amends.

Keep reading to see screenshots of these threads; a recovered copy of the deleted original thread (#1-5) is followed by the original thread's responses (#6-13.) After that comes the husband's thread and responses (#14+).

For more family drama, check out this bride who accused her cousin of show-stealing for having an allergic reaction at her wedding.

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The original thread was deleted by moderators for not following subreddit rules

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A recovered copy of the wife's original post

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Commenters from the original thread roasting the wife

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The wife attempts to defend herself

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The husband made his own thread to try and defend his wife and received the same response

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