'Get new friends': Host kicks guests out of party after someone broke a critical rule

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
Mar 7, 2023 5:00 PM EST

Here's how to ruin a party in just one step. A lot of planning is involved with any party – making a list of food, drinks, party supplies, and more. This person had their party all planned out. They invited their friend group, and mentioned more than once they have a severe allergic reaction. However, once the party actually kicked off, barely an hour passed before someone broke this one critical rule. 

How hard is it to avoid someone's serious allergies if you're already aware of them? As commenters noted, only terrible friends would ignore these simple directions and bring the allergen to the party. Plus, as other commenters noted, who in their right mind brings raw fish to cook at an indoor party? Just the intense smell of fish cooking could be enough to end that party. OP has no real friends in sight for this egregious offense. 

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    Plant - 'I kicked everyone out of my party'
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    Font - r/AmItheA 8 hours ago ole Posted by u/zZzSleepy- n AITA for getting angry & kicking everyone out of my party because someone brought food I was allergic to?
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    Font - I recently hosted a party where I made it clear to everyone attending that I'm severely allergic to fish. So if you're going to bring food, don't bring fish. Well, my warning seemed to have fallen on deaf ears as one of the guests brought & cooked fish in my kitchen.
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    Font - When the party started, for the first like 40 minutes. I wasn't aware someone brought & was cooking fish inside of the house because I was outside the whole time. When I went inside to use the bathroom. I noticed the fish smell instantly.
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    Font - I immediately went to the kitchen and told the person cooking the fish to get that s out of my house. And reminded everyone of my food allergy. A lot of the other people there were already eating some of the fish so now my whole house is contaminated with fish because people were touching everywhere.
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    Font - The guy gave me some BS excuse "Oh you told me a month ago about your allergy you should've reminded people" I then told him that I sent out a text 2 days ago to everyone reminding them & he said he didn't get it. Yeah sure.
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    Font - Anyway, at this point I was panicking because I did not have my Epipen in case I get a severe allergic reaction. Also, I ate some of the food that was being cooked in my kitchen, Food contamination with the fish was likely.
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    Font - I kicked everyone out of my party, even though it was still early in the evening, and I had invited them all over to celebrate. A lot of them travelled far but at this point I did not care.
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    Font - Some of the guests got ped off saying I could just get rid of the fish & they all could wash their hands & I could just chill outside until the fish smell went away. I told them to k off & that they can all blame David for almost killing me. They thought I was overreacting. Which I probably was because again, I was p ed off. I was yelling at this point.
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    Font - A lot of my friends said that I ruined the party because I overreacted because I did not have to kick everyone out of the party since they did not bring the fish. And that I treated David to harshly because it was a honest mistake & they recorded me yelling at him which I honestly feel guilty about. Was I the as hole here?
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    Font - Individual Wonder602 8 hr. ago Partas ant [1] NTA. You know what else would be ruining the party? You going in to anaphylactic shock in front of everybody because you accidentally ate something contaminated with fish. Also, hospital visits are not cheap. Maybe get some new friends who are more considerate.
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    Facial expression - Junk Mail0604. 2 hr. ago NONE of the people who complained were his friends.
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    Font - tango421 1 hr. ago Partas ant [1] As someone who had allergies as well, I'd go ballistic too. No, you are not just washing your hands you are scrubbing the whole d ed house. David ruined the ded party. Anaphylactic shock isn't fun. I don't recommend it. NTA
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    Font - SassieSoleil 8 hr. ago The fact that your allergy is so severe that you've reminded them multiple times, 100% NTA. You threw a party and allowed guests the use of your kitchen. You allowed them into your home and that's how they treated you? "Hey yeah we know this is your house but why don't you just wait outside?" I'm sorry but you don't get to tell someone to wait outside their own party, let alone their own home. Drop all those friends
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    Font - Hermiona1 4 hr. ago What also gets me here that nobody told OP that someone brought fish, nah they just took it and started eating although clearly they remembered that OP is allergic to fish since they didn't bring any fish themselves!
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    Font - NotTodayPsycho - 8 hr. ago NTA. Who the h brings fish to a party and just starts randomly cooking it in the kitchen? 499 Reply Share flyingbye0803 . 5 hr. ago Partas ant [1] Finally someone said it! I have never gone to a party and began cooking raw meat?? Throw some frozen food in the over because the host asked for help yeah! This person was cooking fish without checking with the host wtf NTA OP
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    Font - always_amiss 7 hr. ago David turned your home into a death trap. At that point, the idea of having a fun party should be the last thing on anyone's mind. Honest mistake or not, party was ruined by David. David should be extremely apologetic for what he did. NTA. Also, seeing as David was literally sharing fish around, how come no one bothered to think "wait a minute, isn't OP deathly allergic to fish?".
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    Font - Livinginthemiddle . 7 hr. ago NTA - Get new friends. Nobody stopped Dave, nobody saw him pulling out raw fish and stepped in and said whoa!! OP is allergic! Everyone let Dave cook in your kitchen Not one person came to get you to alert you to a potentially FATAL problem in your own house. Get new friends your current ones suck
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    Font - Fortune TellingBbs - 8 hr. ago A ole Enthusiast [6] NTA. Best to get everyone out ASAP so you can start scrubbing down surfaces without cross contaminating things. 42 Reply Share : TooExtraUnicorn 55 min. ago the guests should have been offering to stay to help clean, not getting mad they couldn't keep partying.
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    Font - naraic- 7 hr. ago Partabant [1] ΝΤΑ I could see an argument that you overreacted. A more realistic argument would be to say that you panicked. Your life was in danger and you panicked.
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    Font - something-__-clever - 5 hr. ago NTA..but why don't you have an epipen in your own home?? Reply Share 쇼 49+ 9 SeaGurl 1 hr. ago I know people who don't have one because they can't afford one
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    Font - Tee077 6 hr. ago Absolutely NTA. On the weekend if actually had a bad reaction to something I didn't know had Cashews in it. It was the scariest thing that's ever happened to me, I couldn't breathe and I was having a panic attack at the same time. I found out today I now need an epi pen. I absolutely understand you and after experiencing what I did, you were completely right in getting very angry. It's no joke.
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