'She thinks [...] he has a right to park there': College students confront roommate's boyfriend after he keeps parking in their driveway

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
Apr 22, 2023 2:00 PM EDT

Parking space is limited and if someone's car has got to go, it should be the boyfriend's! These college students were all living together and had limited parking space (only 2 spots) in a town where parking seemed to be particularly brutal. After a tough situation in which the ladies promised to give their roommate one of the spots, she interpreted that to mean her spot could go to her boyfriend, who also happened to swing by the apartment all the time. 

 

After a few separate conversations with both the roommate and her boyfriend, he refused to listen and kept parking in one of the two spots. It was only a matter of time before the other three roommates snapped. Keep scrolling below for the full play-by-play and for some of the best comments. For more stories like this, here's one about an employee who quit via email and refused to talk it over with his boss.

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    Window - "A's boyfriend parks in the extra spot in the driveway whenever he comes over"
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    Font - AITA for not allowing my roommate's boyfriend to park his car in our driveway? This is an AITA, but more of an AWTA (are we the holes?) since it's four of us. I am an undergraduate college student and live with four other undergraduate college students, all of us 20-22 F. We have a pretty decent 5 bedroom house with a small yard and 2-car driveway with a garage--which we use for storage. For a college town, we live in a pretty nice area, but parking can sometimes be a nightmare. All five
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    Font - Four out of five of us have cars. When we moved into the house last summer, we agreed that the driveway spots would go to two of the roommates. Our fifth roommate, "A," was one of the roommates that was promised a spot. Unfortunately, she was T- boned just before we moved in and her car was totaled. Even though she really needs one to get to her classes and internship, A's parents do not want her to buy a new one and she can't currently afford to buy one herself. Instead, she has her boyf
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    Font - A's boyfriend parks in the extra spot in the driveway whenever he comes over--and he is over for at least six hours a day, every day, and sometimes overnight. We (the four other roommates) have asked A and her boyfriend numerous times to park elsewhere--like, at least six or seven times. We have talked to both of them separately, and together, to no avail. No matter the amount of conversations, A's boyfriend continues to park his car in the one remaining driveway spot. This has been going
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    Font - We (the four other roommates) have all told our boyfriends not to park in the driveway, and they have abided by our requests. A sees nothing wrong with this situation, as she was promised the spot at the beginning of the summer, and she thinks that since they're "sharing" a car, he has a right to park there. However, since the circumstances just happen to be that she doesn't have a car right now, the other four of us think that if the spot should go to somebody, it should be someone whose
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    Font - It got pretty heated today as one of my roommates came home to see A's boyfriend in the driveway again, and she said that if it happens one more time, she will be calling the police. I really don't want the cops to get involved, but I am kinda fed up of him parking there, and feel a little disrespected that she won't just ask him to move. Maybe I'm just being too harsh. Are we being unfair? AWTA?
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    Font - Edit: here is some more info regarding why we promised her the spot: We originally agreed to let her have the spot because she had a small sedan, and we did not know if any of the remaining three roommates' cars would even fit in the driveway (two pickup trucks and a large SUV). This was prior to us moving in. Once we moved in, however, we realized that the driveway was long enough that any of our cars could fit (granted only 2 at a time), and we loosely started who rotate got to park in
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    Font - finallyinfinite 15 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [27] NTA. The parking is for the people on the lease. If the person on the lease is no longer parking there and there's no plans for that to be changing any time in the near future, the parking space should go to someone else on the lease. 4.3k Reply Share
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    Font - samuraintj 15 hr. ago NTA. Those who actually reside there should get the spot. Visitors don't get a spot, especially when residents don't have space to park. I wonder, even if we say NTA, how do you intend on proceeding and enforcing? Seems tricky...I might take it up with the landlord before going to the police... Also, I'd clean up the garage, since 2-3 of you are still left without a spot. 924 Reply Share
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    Font - ext2523 15 hr. ago INFO Why was she promised a spot and not the other three roommates? 343 Reply Share
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    Font - moo_moo_motherfuckR OP. 14 hr. ago We originally agreed to let her have the spot because she had a small sedan, and we did not know if any of the remaining three roommates' cars would even fit in the driveway (two pickup trucks and a large SUV). This was prior to us moving in. Once we moved in, however, we realized that the driveway was long enough that any of our cars could fit (granted only 2 at a time), and we loosely started who rotate got to park in either of the parking spots. This
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    Font - coldgator 15 hr. ago ESH but this could be solved by having whoever gets the driveway spots pay slightly more in rent (which means the other people's rent would be slightly less). Reply Share 228
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    Font - miyuki_m 15 hr. ago "A," was one of the roommates that was promised a spot. YTA. A was promised a spot but isn't using it herself because she no longer has a car. Instead, her BF is driving her, so he gets to use her spot. Unless you revoked her right to use the spot and it's no longer hers, she gets to have the person providing her transportation use her spot. 208 Reply Share
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    Font - burneraccount__96 13 hr. ago So the dude who doesn't pay rent and is there constantly, I'd assume eating using the restroom and not doing any sort of chores also gets one of two parking spots? If she were borrowing the car, that would be one thing, but why does dude doing pick off drop-off service deserve that spot more than people paying to live there? He's not even doing the rotation like the other roommates just laying claim Reply Share 252
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    Font - postysbottombitch. 15 hr. ago NTA AND PLEASE go to your landlord or whoever is in management of your residence about her boyfriend and her breaking the lease because staying that frequently would not just breach her of her lease but also could make him a legal tenant in some places and depending on where you are/ what type of housing and the legality's of it are they are not just ducking all of you over with increased bills from him living there because at this point he lives there but al
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    Font - Sea_Bar8885. 15 hr. ago YTA. You promised A a spot in that drive way without an exception. Since she is using her boyfriend and his car as a vehicle to get around, in her mind it shouldn't be a problem to park there. The vehicle he drives is being used because it's a necessity to her you said yourself. You shouldn't walk this back during a time she needs help the most. 122 Reply Share
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