Bachelorette parties can get expensive. For some reason, friends of friends decide to spend $1000 on a 3 day vacation to celebrate the end of maidenhood for one of their girls, but can't justify the idea of spending a smidge more if disaster strikes. One woman, the 22 year old sister of a bridezilla to be, recently realized the true ruthless nature of her older sister's friend group after opting out of bachelorette festivities.
From the very beginning, the younger sister had made it very clear to her sibling that she was on the fence about attending the bachelorette party. She and her older sister were semi-estranged at the time and struggled to get along. But when it comes to wedding stuff, family is family, so you're more or less obliged to attempt civility. Things went south when the sisters got in an argument. Months prior to the bach, they scuffled about how the older sister had always treated the youngest with contempt and that was the reason she was hesitating about committing to an expensive, potentially disastrous bachelorette party.
After months of back-and-forth, the younger sister told the group that she would not be attending the bachelorette party. They hemmed and hawed about how it was a little late notice, but OP pointed out that she never actually RSVP'd. After she missed the trip, the maid of honor had the audacity to send a Venmo request for the younger sister's "share" of the trip's expenses.
The estranged sister didn't go on the trip obviously so she didn't pay. The MOH and the rest of the bridal party turned on her and now the younger sister is debating even going to the wedding. Who can blame her? When you're being heckled by the ferocious vixens that back your mean older sister, you're not only outnumbered, but severely outgunned to handle yourself in the presence of a bridal ceremony.