AITA: 'His GF is disgusting': Catty female friend trash talks her ex's new girlfriend, proving that she's not only jealous, but completely in denial

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    Glasses - r/AmItheA u/Sea-Glass-2274 A2. 428800 . Posted by 15 hours ago AITA for telling my best friend his gf is disgusting?
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    Font - I (22f) have been friends with Danny (22m) since high school and he recently moved in with his current gf Lucy (22f). They had a housewarming party on Friday and Lucy spent most of the night dancing with her own friends who are very like her (excitable extroverted e.g) and dragging Danny away from his conversations with us (his friends) to dance even though he's more like us (introverted not party animals)
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    Font - Later Danny was being quiet so I asked if he was okay and he said just tired, but he just kept watching Lucy dancing and then said something in her ear the next time she came over and she just shook her head and laughed at him. After she went back to her friends I asked if it was bothering him how she was behaving and he asked me to explain.
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    Font - I mentioned the attention seeking dancing and the fact she was wearing something really revealing even though other guys were at this party. Danny said it didn't bother him then sat with a moody face.
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    Font - At the end of the night Lucy sat down with us and started chatting non stop about how amazing the party had been. I pointed out jokingly Danny obviously wasn't enjoying himself since he looked miserable, and Danny told her I was worried he was jealous because of her outfit. Lucy ruffled his hair (which he hates) and said he was quiet because he loved her outfit so much he couldn't wait for us all to leave so he could "drag" her to bed.
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    Font - I thought that was completely inappropriate and said to Danny in that case I'd leave if she was just going to be disgusting and Lucy just laughed at me so I did leave.
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    Font - Today Danny has messaged me saying Lucy wants an apology before I'm allowed back at their home but when I asked if Lucy will apologize for making me uncomfortable he said no she doesn't have anything to be sorry about.
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    Font - I was genuinely only worried about my friend but admit I could have just left without calling her disgusting so AITA?
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    Font - ETA - to clarify I didn't say the comment about her clothes directly to Lucy, I asked Danny once then never mentioned it again. I asked him because I know in the past he's said anything overly s xual makes him uncomfortable.
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    Font - He's not the kind of guy who makes innuendos or anything Also I'm in no way jealous of Lucy, she's the opposite of how I'd want to be (which is fine people can be who they want) and Danny and I already tried dating years ago but the spark wasn't there and it was uncomfortable after we tried being intimate and we BOTH agreed we were better as completely platonic friends
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    Rectangle - Sonlaan 7 hr. ago Notice the edit saying they tried dating and should be friends. Friends as long as he never finds someone and regrets not picking her.
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    Font - Sardinesadness 15 hr. ago Partassipant [1] YTA, girl.....what? I'm sorry but that's such a hateful way to talk abt someones gf just for having fun. she was literally just minding her business having a good time & you had to hate on her for it?
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    Font - Prestigious Fruit267. 14 hr. ago Minding her business and having a good time in her own home with her friends And soooo much internalized misogyny spilling out of OP. Ick
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    Font - Sardinesadness 12 hr. ago Partassipant [1] Literally all she did was dance with her friends, wear clothes, n talk to her boyfriend. this aint the victorian period, not a scandal to have fun.
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    Rectangle - iamgoin 3 hr. ago She's dreaming about the day when he'll wake up and find that what he's looking for has been there the whole time!
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    Human body - Mynoseisgrowingold. 13 hr. ago She dances with her friends in her own house! clutches pearls
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    Rectangle - babcock27 11 hr. ago Right. She literally said she's "not like us" for being outgoing and having fun and acted like she was wrong for having her boyfriend dance with her when OP wanted him to sit and talk. She may not want him but she's going to gatekeep who can have him. YTA
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    Font - Responsible_Phase907 13 hr. ago She wears pretty things she likes around her fun friends! gasp She tussles her live-in boyfriend's hair! falls backward in chair
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    Font - Beneficial_Ship_7988 - 2 hr. ago I'm an introvert that wishes the extroverts of the world would just learn to shut up, and I liked Danny's girlfriend much more than OP by the end of the post. She laughs, dances and she wears s xy clothing? And that makes her disgusting?
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    Font - Sardinesadness 12 hr. ago Partassipant [1] what blasphemy! how dare she have fun and talk To her boyfriend!

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