People Share Their Non-Negotiable Friendship Dealbreakers

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Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
May 12, 2023 12:00 PM EDT

Our friends can be some of the most important relationships we have in our lives, but they're also one of the most consistently undervalued. There are too many individuals out there who will use and abuse friendships in a way that they wouldn't dare with their family members or romantic relationships. 

It can also become pretty difficult to call out crappy friends, especially when you both belong to the same friendship group. Forget polyamory, just navigating the average platonic social circle can be a nightmare when it comes to keeping things organized and drama-free. 

As anybody who has experienced the pain of a friend breakup realizes, sometimes it's easier to cut someone off at the first warning sign than get into more trouble. This is the logic of many Twitter users who have been sharing their dealbreakers when it comes to friendships. Most people deserve a second chance, but not if they're doing things like this.

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    Smile - niggasbebrokeokayy @khilanii what's y'all deal breaker in a friendship? i really wanna know
    via khilanii
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    Font - Spicy Sagitterrorist @adoseofmars Friends who's love language is "being mean," sorry but don't do that shit with me. You wanna make sly remarks and name call me then you're simply a bitch and an awful person. There's nothing funny or loving about being mean. Sorry not sorry
    via adoseofmars
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    Human body - @_Nwai 6h people who take everything so serious. if I cannot be human and faulty around you, I can't be your mate.
    via _Nwai
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    Font - a @magilaksa I dont appreciate having female friends. whose entire lives revolve around their need to sustain the attention of men. Where is your focus. Is this the person your parents want you to become?
    via magilaska
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    Font - Shaka Zulu @shwabade Canceling /Changing our plans because of your girlfriend/ boyfriend I'll never plan anything with you ever again
    via _shwabade_
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    Font - aries @verydowntomars if I think for even a second that you're lowkey hating on me and in some kind of weird secret competition with me
    via verydowntomars
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    Font - in heels Farah C. Fortune @fcfortune When you realize you're the one keeping the friendship going. Always calling them, always messaging them. Once it's one sided, it's easier to let go.
    via fcfortune
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    Human body - faithxo @faitheeponyg having a blast everyday with your other friends but with me you're never free
    via faitheeponyg
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    Mammal - knucks.mp4 @___naledi_____ Dudes who just can't have friendships with women, always tryna smash, stop it bro
    via __naledi__
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    Font - Bontle Ndlovu @bontlendlovu___ - wanting to be friends with everyone - talks shit about people that they still hang out with - posts indirects on their status / story instead of talking to me about it - never wants to take accountability - being cool with my opps - " you're so pretty let's be friends
    via bontlendlovu_
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    Font - women don'T oWe YoU SHIT @AyaHlangs Lying for absolutely no reason. Why are you lying to me bro?
    via AyaHLangs
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    Smile - IJ | mwen pa sòt online @aChildOf2Worlds When you don't show up for people at monumental events in their lives. What is the point of you then?.. VIV
    via aChildOf2Worlds
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    Font - Big M @mihletshemese i honestly can't stand friends who can't be honest without being mean and hide behind "it's tough love" & "this is who I am", it makes me not want to share things with you and if i can't share things with you as my friend than what are we even doing?
    via mihletshemese
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    Smile - Munhu wa Baby @Mbilu Yanga Celebrating with your other friends and only coming to me with problems.
    via Mbilu_Yanga

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