'I would've stayed if she asked' : Husband Abandons Wife on Milestone Birthday to Go Golfing With Friends

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    Font - Posted by u/HotInspection 7058 15 hours ago AITA for kind of missing my wife's birthday
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    Font - I (32M) have been married to B (30F) for about 4 years. Her 30th birthday fell on a Saturday. Her friends threw her a small party for that night. Since we weren't due to arrive at the party until later in the evening, I decided to go golf. My wife seemed a bit
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    Font - irritated when I told her I was leaving but she didn't say anything or ask me not to. It was a bit crowded at the course so the game took a bit long. I got home a little less than an hour before we were due to leave. I was a bit rushed on getting ready.
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    Font - My wife was upset with me because she spent the entire day alone and told me that I do not care much about her. If she would've asked, i would've stayed. Am i the AH?
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    Font - MelodyRaine 14 hr. ago Pooperintendant [61] YTA A milestone birthday for you wife and you left her alone for the day to go golfing. Count your blessings you're still married dear. 14.2k Reply
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    Font - Dazzling_Ad_2633 13 hr. ago Partassipant [1] and he wasn't even the one throwing the party for her. He put zero effort into celebrating his wife's birthday 1 5.7k Reply
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    Font - delaney14 He damn near her AVOIDED birthday. 4 1.7k 9 hr. ago Reply
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    Font - SheiB123 7 hr. ago · My BF tried to plan a surprise party for my 30th, realized he couldn't and then offloaded all the party prep on to me. He got drunk before the party started and passed out. I didn't know who was invited, what time it was supposed to start, etc. He was flabbergasted that I was upset. And when I moved out a few months later...
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    Font - Indlml It has happened to me and it sucks.. but even worse is that you would think they are sincere when apologizing for forgetting/ prioritizing something else but then they would do something. Like properly make up for it. OP should not just apologize but literally take her out and make her feel like he actually cares. 6 hr. ago ●
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    Font - StealToadStilletos 10 hr. ago But he would have iF sHe hAd aSkEd ● If buddy demonstrated this kind of nonchalance about his performance at whatever overpaid job has him playing golf boyo would have been fired a long time ago
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    Font - Reyemreden 9 hr. ago And if she did ask for him to stay, the title would have been "AITA for wanting to go golfing on my wife's 30th birthday?"
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    Font - whatswithchaffles · 7 hr. ago "I'd help around the house if she just asked!" "I'd take her out on a date if she just asked!" "I'd take care of the kids if she just asked!"
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    Font - Yeah. You'd be an actual partner in her life, as long as she tells ASKS you to do the things you should already know you should be doing.
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    Font - aGirlySloth 7 hr. ago But when women ask it somehow gets misconstrued as nagging
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    Font - -pixiefyre- 7 hr. ago or being too needy...
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    Font - moonweasel906.5 hr. ago There's that weaponized incompetence again

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