'She didn't say we had to be seen': Employee rebels against her boss who forced her to turn her camera on during virtual meetings, maliciously complying by sitting out of frame

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    Output device - Your demand: cameras on. But who said we had to be SEEN on said cameras?
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    Font - r/r/MaliciousCompliance Posted by u/k1ll3rkitten 9 hours ago Camera must be on. S OC
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    Font - So I (26 F) am a new mom and just returned to work from Mat leave June 1st. I work from home in a "telemarketing" position via chat/text selling windows. (This is important). In this time I have-
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    Mammal - meetings that should have been emails, attended team huddles, met with coworkers one on one and revised some of our best practices, all while holding my at
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    Font - the time- 2 month old son. 3 weeks ago we were informed that turning our cameras on for virtual meetings was mandatory and she did not care if we were "put together" or "presented as professional" for these meetings
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    Font - but the expectation was to have your camera on and engage in topics discussed. She also informed me that being a parent was unprofessional. (Not important to this story)
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    Font - Soooo after running my plan by my coworkers (team of 10) and getting a green light.... In the last 2 weeks I have attended 21 meetings. In every meeting I log into the meeting, turn on my camera and I sit out of frame of the camera on my laptop, on my office floor or to
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    Font - the side so i can see but not be seen, so all you see is the empty chair I'm supposed to be sitting in. But I don't move until she says "so let's get started" so between my logging in and her "let's get started" I wear my
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    Font - "I'm p ssed at the planet" face. I also participate/engage in these meetings and derail them so they end up lasting much longer than she intended and she just ends up spinning
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    Font - engagement, questions, interjections, corrections, and an overall obnoxious level of engagement. I have done this for every meeting in the last 2 weeks. I have a routine meeting with supervisor on Friday and will also be out of frame during the meeting. I will continue to
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    Font - the meeting. I will continue to do so until she no longer makes us have our cameras on. Your demand: cameras on. I listened. Not once did she say we had to be SEEN on said cameras.
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    Font - mreed 911 +2.8 hr. ago You should breastfeed on camera. That'll end that.
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    Font - _svaha 8 hr. ago This is honestly where I thought we were going with this story Vote Reply Share fromwayuphigh. 8 hr. ago Same. I was primed for the pearl-clutching gasps.
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    Font - harrywwc 8 hr. ago +3. She also informed me that being a parent was unprofessional. (Not important to this story) although the above was probably a hint that this was not going to be the case.
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    Font - +1.2 hr. ago Quixus Here's this for professionalism: Create a paper trail with HR confirming that you are required to keep the camera on no matter whether you have to br astfeed or not.
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    Font - Warfieldarcher · 7 hr. ago I've just found that the camera on my laptop doesn't like bright light, so I angle the camera so that it's pointing towards one of the very bright ceiling lights. All that can be seen of me is a fuzzy dark outline. My last meeting I spent an enjoyable 45 minutes reading a book and nobody knew :-)
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    Font - ZirePhiinix Cameras can pick up infrared. +2.6 hr. ago Buy an infrared lamp that you can't see but it'll overexpose the camera like crazy and they won't be able to see anything.
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    Font - _Tom___ 10 min. ago I've moved my home offce into the basement during the hottest hours. Found out that while I can see well, all the camera shows is darkness.
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    Font - TheFluffiestRedditor +2. 6 hr. ago Even better, have the "working loop" video running, and walk by in the background every so often
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    Human body - cfsfirey 4 hr. ago Mirror their camera so it's them on screen.
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    Human body - jonr - 5 hr. ago Have you tried to "I don't know how to turn off the cat filter"?
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    Font - wielandmc +2.8 hr. ago Get a coloured screen for behind you. Wear the same colour as a t-shirt and dye your hair that colour too, then use the background filter to make yourself appear as a bald floating head in all the video calls. Get a gene Simmons mask and wear it on the calls.
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    Font - . best_use_of_badgers 1 hr. ago I'm 100% remote and a big fan of cameras on, so you can see the expressions of people in the meeting. You can see people nodding along, or looking puzzled, or trying to interject, so it becomes a conversation rather than a broadcast.
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    Font - Rosie Crone 2 hr. ago Why though?? If everyone doing their jobs, why do we need to see one another? How does forcing me to turn on a camera help you do your job better?
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    Mammal - CutePhysics3214 - 5 hr. ago They get my face when we're introduced. And then camera reverts to off.

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