'We don't want a dog': Aunt buys nieces puppy as a surprise present without asking their parents, dad loses it

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    Dog - Aunt buys nieces puppy as a surprise present without asking their parents
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    Font - AITA for saying FO No to a dog and taking it to the pound? Not the A-hole I (38M) generally like dogs, but in small doses. I grew up with them, but they weren't the most positive thing to me growing up. My wife has similar sentiments about owning pets and they aren't something either of us ever wanted. We have 2 daughters age 8 and 10. My sister (33F) has grown up to be a classic "dog mom" and loves her dogs more than anything. She is also very close with my daughters.
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    Font - Well the other day my sister took my daughters out shopping. They come home with a puppy. I see it and i'm pissed. My sister is like look what I bought them. My girls were asking if I liked it. I tell them, can you take the puppy out front and play with it. They do. My sister is like, are you going to keep the dog? I respond FONO, you know we don't want a dog. Its not staying and you are telling the girls that its your new puppy. Take it back, keep it, I don't give a f fo Its not staying
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    Font - I'm livid. I call the girls in and they are happy. My heart broke telling them we can't keep this dog. The look from happiness to sadness is something i'm not going to forget. Your aunt tricked you and this dog isn't yours. Well that did not go over great and they both went to their room crying. I took the dog straight to the pound. I gave my sister one more opportunity to keep it but she said her lease won't allow another dog. But she called me evil before hanging up. AITA?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the Ole: AITA for not allowing my girls to have a pet dog? I'm the ale because I was hostile toward my sister who got it for them and I took the dog to the pound.
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    Font - UnfortunateDaring NTA - everyone needs to hear this, puppies ARE NOT presents. They are decisions made by the family to get a new family member to make sure the dog is cared for life and loved by the family and not some random gift you throw out when it doesn't amuse you. Your sister needs to reevaluate her decision making. 17.3k 2dogslife So true! Reply Share And they are freaking hard work! Housebreaking, training, lost sleep, chewed items, not to mention the vet expenses and cost of ma
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    Font - ChemistryAdorable212 NTA. I'm a "dog-mom" and I think what your sister did was terrible. She knew that this was the likely outcome and she got the puppy anyway. If she got it from a puppy mill, which I suspect she did, that's even worse. The good thing about puppies is that they are adopted quickly from shelters. People pretty much have to go through background checks now to adopt (I did) so the puppy will most likely go to a good home. 4.6k Reply Share ●●●
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    Font - 3+2, Emergency_Ad_5935 NTA. She had absolutely no business signing your family up for a long term personal and financial commitment without discussing it with you first. 100% her fault the kids are disappointed and she's a huge AH for dragging that poor dog through this escapade. 42.4k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - Lucallia ΝΤΑ For being a dog-lover she sure doesn't treat a dog like it's a living being that you have to be responsible for. She's treating it like some toy she bought for her nieces. If you actually care about animals you would know you NEVER surprise gift animals. Reply Share 1.6k
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    Font - Maleficent_Ant2594 NTA and a challenge to all saying YTA for sending it to the pound. DM the OP and get the pound info. Adopt the puppy and fly out and get it. If you are not willing to do that, you have zero to say about it. No one should be forced to get, keep or re-home a dog. 1.1k untitledfolder4 Reply Share 127 ●●● Yep. But we all know they won't Reply Share
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    Font - 10 PurpleSquirrel_9920 NTA however I would have made your sister take the dog with her and let her figure out what to do. She created the problem she can figure out how to fix it. Dogs should never be unexpected gifts. Reply Share 316 Safe-Scar-6419 Absolutely. 17 ↓ Reply Share

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