'My date asked if we knew each other': Guy goes on cringe first date when he discovers his waitress is the other girl he was messaging that day

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    Font - Matched/talked to girl on tinder one morning. Later that day, she was my waitress while I'm on a date
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    Font - Matched with a girl on Tinder one morning. She messaged first, we chatted a little, then told her I'm getting a haircut, let's talk later, that was it. Few hours later, I go to a restaurant with another Tinder date. Waitress comes and says, "Heyy I'm Alicia...(looks at me and says) HEYYYY!" I'm like, "heyy" not knowing who she was at first, then she told us the specials and I realized who she was. She left and my date asked if we knew each other because it was obvious. I told her the trut
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    Font - My date went amazing all night. Then my date goes to the bathroom and the waitress comes, holding dirty dishes in her hands, says "You're (so & so) right? We talked earlier today? I said yea ,how's it going, etc, small brief talk.
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    Font - I told her I'm here with a friend and she says, "ohh no it's none of my business at all...". She says, "I gotta go but we'll talk later?" I said sure and that was it. We messaged a few times later after. We planned a date but she couldn't make it last minute and asked to reschedule. I said Ok and she never replied back. Never spoke to her again. Its weird because she did keep messaging me after, canceled first date, but wanted to reschedule. But I was waiting for her to reschedule and she
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    Font - floopydope 19 hr. ago . The last line near about killed me But OP, why don't you schedule a date with her again rather than waiting for her to do the same?
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    Font - Sigma2385 OP. 19 hr. ago Haha, yea before I left, I HAD to leave a good tip. Because I scheduled a date with her at first. She said she's probably busy that day but will see how it goes. Then later she says she's still with her dad but wants to reschedule. I said sure, I understand. She said thanks for being so cool and understanding about it, etc.
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    Font - She messaged me a few more times while I'm waiting for her to reschedule, but she didn't. I'm not gonna reschedule a date that she canceled. I'm a new man this year and every man should do this. If u schedule a date and she can't make it, then she needs to reschedule and nothing else.
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    Font - That's how girls these days complain of not finding a good man, etc. That's exactly how u lose them. If a girl was really THAT interested, she wouldn't have canceled. If she was THAT interested, then she would've rescheduled. I guess I just wasn't high up on the priority list or she expected me to keep chasing. Either way, she missed out.
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    Gesture - Swift747 10 hr. ago Lol that's a pretty dumb stand point but you do you.
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    Font - throwitintheair22 10 hr. ago Lol wtf? I would have just proposed a date and time
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    Font - Sigma2385 OP. 2 hr. ago I did........(wtf?)..... I said meet me at this place around 8pm. She said Ok, she may be busy that day, but she will try. She canceled a few hours before and said let's re schedule. I said Ok. She messaged a few more times and that was it.
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    Font - Bedroom Bellamy 18 hr. ago Sounds to me like she probably already had something better on the line and was talking to you while waiting to see where it went with him. Ghosted once it worked out with him.
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    Font - Sigma2385 OP. 18 hr. ago Probably, but she couldve picked any day to reschedule. She couldve just stopped talking after she saw me, but she messaged me. You'd think she'd take a chance with 1 date to see if we go better together. Idk, she was 5"8 and maybe I wasn't tall enough, lol
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    Font - 00 AquanautOrange. 18 hr. ago She rejected you after making sure you were still interested in her. Probably a little immature on her part. I never advise that guys play games, but this is why some men do play games...if you played harder to get, she probably would have gone out with you. But you seem to have played things almost totally right...you shouldn't have felt the need to lie about the other date being your friend. Either tell the waitress the truth or don't give her an explanatio
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    Font - Its probably better you just avoid people who play games. In her defense, maybe she wasn't playing games...maybe she learned you lied to her and figured a liar isnt worth getting to know.
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    Font - Sigma2385 OP. 17 hr. ago Nah, I doubt the 1st part. I replied back when she texted and was just neutral, calm, and cool with her. I did play hard to get, she wanted to reschedule and I never did, since I was waiting for her to do that. I never really messaged her again after that, so if anything, I wasn't trying hard enough? But in reality I did my part. Weve only messaged each other like 10 messages total, so we didn't day alot back and forth. I didnt lie to her about anything. What did

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