'[She says] it's my fault': Boss blames worker when shady business practices earn her an investigation from the IRS

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    Posted by u/piscesgirlhehe 11 hours ago My boss said she's getting investigated by IRS and it's my fault My boss is a narcissist and has a severe savior complex. I work as a legal assistant in family law and have been for several years now. I gave my two weeks Monday because I just morally can't work for this woman anymore. She lies to clients, to her employees, bills clients $500+ for personal meals because she ate there "after a hearing" and just so much more. It's a terrible work environment
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    My co worker yesterday had a call with her regarding his insurance benefits. Apparently in the call she said something along the lines of, "I'm so off. Because my name has worked multiple full time jobs this year, I'm getting investigated for money laundering." For context, I worked a job for a while and moved to this job in May because it was an easier commute. Now I'm moving to a new firm because this environment is so toxic.
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    My dad works in law and specifically works with taxes a lot and so I asked him if this was a thing and he said it's absolute . Plus, I know for a fact this woman uses business cards to buy personal expenses so... That's a more likely reason for investigation lol. It's just crazy she'd blatantly lie like that and try to blame me for her obvious bad financial choices??? Lowkey hoping she gets in trouble because she deserves the karma.
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    Portraitofapancake. 11 hr. ago First rule of narcissism: all of their problems are somebody else's fault and it's okay for them to lie to anyone. Reply Share 637 Turbulent-Pipe-4642 11 hr. ago. edited 11 hr. ago Similar things happened to my father many years ago. As a small business owner he thought he could cheat on his taxes. I don't have all the details but once
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    they started looking they looked at both business and personal. I know he sold his home and moved into a rented apartment. He promised my brother he would help him pay for university tuition. Never happened. He took out student loans. My mother was furious (my parents are divorced). He thought he was smarter than everyone else. That he was so special
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    that the rules didn't apply to him. Of course, everything that happened was not his fault. I haven't spoken to him in many, many years. I won't even get into what's it's like having a parent who is a narcissist. Good Luck OP. I dealt with these behaviours for many years. It's not about you. 155 Reply Share
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    Electrical_Ad_7036 11 hr. ago edited 11 hr. ago The best thing would be that the IRS will want to interview you also. Basically just reiterate everything you stated here. 817 . Reply Share EmergencyAltruistic1 · 9 hr. ago 231 call them up & volunteer that info! Reply Share
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    NoMoreMonkeyBrain 11 hr. ago Sounds like she's going to have a lot of illegal practices catch up to her. The IRS offers bounties of 15-30% for reporting certain types of illegal activity. Your ex boss is already going to try and screw you over and drag your name through the mud. Maybe you should get something out of complying with the law? 170 Reply Share 55 piscesgirlhehe OP. 11 hr. ago I'm not sure what I'd even do. I don't have physical proof of anything and I've never reported someone before
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    Billyone1739 11 hr. ago If she really is improperly billing clients you should be reporting her to your State bar association from misconduct if that happens the last thing she needs to worry about is the IRS COLO 70 Reply Share 34 ●●● piscesgirlhehe OP. 11 hr. ago I was going to report her to the bar but she'd know it was me and I'm worried it'd damage my reputation in the legal field here if I didn't come up on top on the other side... Reply Share
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    parkesc 11 hr. ago Please keep in touch with your coworkers, I'd like to know what happens to her. ✩41 Reply Share tsscaramel 11 hr. ago Sounds like she deserves it, good riddance and good luck in your next job OP ↑ 16 Reply Share
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    rexel99 11 hr. ago Sounds like a defamation action. 23 ↓ • Reply Share piscesgirlhehe OP. 11 hr. ago Trust. I'm looking into in jic Reply Share 12
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    Pete8388 10 hr. ago Money laundering is taking money from an illegal source and injecting it into a legit business then removing it as "clean" money, thus legitimizing the income. Cash heavy businesses like laundromats (hence the term laundering) are popular, as well as bars, clubs, etc. The dirty money is deposited along with legit income and reported as such. Reply Share
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    broomandkettle 7 hr. ago edited 7 hr. ago OP, her over billing of her clients is probably what got her into trouble. She I off the wrong person. The IRS will dig into her credit card histories and will see the fraud for themselves. Cover your bases here. Check your credit to make sure she hasn't opened any lines of credit in your name. She has your ssn and
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    personal info, so it's possible she's opened a business account and will pretend that the expenses are yours and that she's been reimbursing you. She's mentioned you as the reason for getting into trouble. So either she's completely delusional or she's done something using your name/ID and got caught. 9 Reply Share
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    xxrth 11 hr. ago I mean if she already thinks it's your fault, might as well comply and turn her into the IRS and give them all the info you have. 48 Reply Share
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    Quiet___Lad 9 hr. ago idle You can control the activities of the IRS? That's super powerful! 8 Reply Share piscesgirlhehe OP. 8 hr. ago ikr! i'm too powerful. 4 Reply Share
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    D_A8681 11 hr. ago Well, with a narcissist in the equation, it's always your fault no matter what you did. Transfer to a different department or look for another job, that's my advice. Reply Share 4
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    YomiKuzuki 9 hr. ago You should report her to the IRS anyway. Ask your co-worker if he's willing to testify that your boss said she blames you for her being investigated when the IRS decides to call you in for an interview. Furthermore, if you decide to work with her for the full two weeks, document everything. Odds are good that she'll try some form of retaliatory behavior. 4 Reply Share piscesgirlhehe OP. 8 hr. ago if i get to come back next week, might do some digging to find physical proof R
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    bookcupcakes 10 hr. ago That is not how money laundering works. They are just a narcissist. I would probably start lining something else up. Your paycheck may start bouncing if they seize assets. Reply Share 4
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    Juancho511 9 hr. ago Tell her to get 1. You already know she's human being. Your'e already a the better person. Leave and don't look back, don't answer emails, don't answer texts, don't answer calls, just forget about them and move on. I'll never work for people like that again, and you shouldn't either. Reply Share

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