DnD player gets banned from sessions for trying to slide into DM's sister's DMs: 'I told him not to come to any more sessions'

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    Posted by u/Aita-throw-sis56 16 hours ago AITA for banning someone from DnD So I (25F) live with my younger sister "Nina" (21F) to save money (we both pay the rent equally). I also host regular D&D sessions and recently we got a new player. All seemed well until my sis came home, said a quick hello to everyone and went to her room. After the session the new player immediately turned to me and asked if she's single. She is but she is also completely uninterested in a relationship.
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    The way she puts it 'Men are pretty, women are pretty, cats are pretty. That does not mean I want to date any of them'. Since I didn't want to tell him the details I just told him she's not interested. He promptly accused me of being jealous and told me that's for her to decide. I basically said 'You aren't her or my type, trust me.' He got offended and started berating me, so I told him not to come to any more sessions. The next day one of the other players told me I overreacted but I don't wan
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    OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the : Basically I'm asking if I'm the for kicking him after only one 'strike'. Does that make it clearer?
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    Vengeance_AI. 7 hr. ago ΝΤΑ As a fellow DM... That's a problem player if I've ever heard one. In your own home - this guy starts berating you and accusing you of being jealous? It's your game, your table, your rules, your house, your time, your effort, your space. It's a priviledge to join a table, not a right. Keep that guy banned. 1.2k Reply Share
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    Proof Self9691 7 hr. ago NTA if he didn't want you speaking for your sister he shouldn't have asked you, he should have just talked to her. He wanted you to play middle man till you said something he didn't like then he attacked your character Frankly it's weird to hit on a friends sibling anyway 559 Reply Share ●●●
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    Spirited-Age-6452 7 hr. ago NTA (you're the hero) Random person is in your home, ogles your sister, immediately tries to get an in through YOU to pursue your sister who he has never met He asked you, not her. You say no. He BERATES YOU over a polite NO, that is not about him, to pursue someone he doesn't know I would have let the first part pass as a yellow flag, but his reaction is red as 432 Reply Share
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    mrBill12 · 7 hr. ago ΝΤΑ The dude is a . Dude basically cast the first stone by accusing you of gatekeeping. I wouldn't want to deal with that regularly either. Good job ending before escalation. 284 Reply Share
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    BetweenWeeband Otaku 7 hr. ago Commander in Cheeks [235] NTA. He rolled a 1 on his persuasion check. Reply Share 259 RegularOrdinary3716 7 hr. ago Negative charisma modifier for sure. 123 ↓ Reply Share
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    Weird-Mine8312 - 7 hr. ago Partassipant [2] ΝΤΑ The new player did nothing wrong by asking, but his insisting and berating you are red flags. You are correct in not wanting someone like that in your home. ↑ 87 87 ↓ Reply Share
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    Cool Relative 7359 7 hr. ago NTA. Your house your rules. And one of the perks of that is you don't have to allow pushy or aggressive people into your home. Dudes like that ruin Dnd for the rest of us, and are why many women have "women only" sessions. Just remember "if you ask a question that someone can't say no to without consequence, it's not a request, it's a demand". And you aren't obligated to give in to people's demands. Reply Share 81
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    Talyn Rahl 7 hr. ago NTA. Dude sounds creepy as and clearly has trouble taking no for an answer. I wouldn't want anyone like that around my family. Reply Share 60
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    Any-Inspection6079 - 7 hr. ago NTA- it's you and your sisters home, not a community space and you both deserve to feel comfy- his reaction was enough to show he probably won't let it go, so you've made the call to protect your sister. Plus, if he didn't take "no/not interested" as an answer about if she's single, that's a big red flag for me. 54 Reply Share
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    Hopstorm 7 hr. ago NTA. You have every single right to dicide who you invite to your own house. Reply Share ↑ 51 51
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    N7_Vegeta 7 hr. ago NTA. He rolled a a critical fail 42 Reply Share De-railled 7 hr. ago . Multiple failed rolls in this one. 18 Reply Share ●●●
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    LeadershipMany 7008 7 hr. ago NTA. Bro went overboard and you get to decide with whom you socialize. Reply Share 30
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    What TookTheeSo Long 6 hr. ago In matt mercer's voice Roll a persuasion check for me please. Rolls a 1 26 Reply Share
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    inFinEgan 7 hr. ago Supreme Court Just- ΝΤΑ ¡[101] I'm surprised that you didn't boot him. as soon as he accused you of being jealous. And no, you didn't overreact unless you're exaggerating the whole story. Assuming you are telling the truth, I can't see how anyone would think you were overreacting. 21 Reply Share
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    Artistic-Mortgage253 · 6 hr. ago You made the right choice and should also ban the person that stood up for the creep. They run in packs and try to enable each other. You're keeping your castle secure. 23 Reply Share
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    wolfy_067 hr. ago ΝΤΑ Does he think he's a bard irl??? ↑ ↓ 20 Reply Share

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