'Game on...': Housemates Refuse to Give Into Roommates Demands After Roommate Ritual Goes Wrong, Leading to a Kitchen Full of Sticky Notes

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    Above the sink was a post-it note reading, "Per our previous conversation, please don't leave dirty dishes in the sink." In the sink was a coffee cup, small plate, and spoon. Petra had missed her alarm, and I guess Nell came home during her lunch break, saw the mess, and left a note.
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    Giving back my roommate's energy
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    A few years ago, I rented a house with two other women. We were all in our mid-20s, working full time, and with various social obligations. We kept the house tidy, though sometimes a dish or two was left in the sink for later if we were running late.
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    Nell (all fake names in this post) called a roommate meeting, and said we should all wash our dishes when we're done using this. No problem, right? That's what we mostly did, except for the rare occasion when somebody was running late. We were extra conscientious about it afterward, however.
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    A few weeks later, I came home one afternoon to my other roommate, Petra, standing in the kitchen and looking annoyed. Above the sink was a post-it note reading, "Per our previous conversation, please don't leave dirty dishes in the sink." In the sink
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    was a coffee cup, small plate, and spoon. Petra had missed her alarm, and I guess Nell came home during her lunch break, saw the mess, and left a note. But here's the thing: this was the first time Petra or I had left anything in the sink since that
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    conversation. Nell, however, regularly left her dishes in the sink until the next day. The next night, Petra and I come home after Nell was asleep. She left a cup in the sink. Petra ran to her room, grabbed a pile of sticky notes, and wrote, "Per our previous
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    conversation, please don't leave dirty dishes in the sink." I asked if I could leave a note, and it spiraled from there. Between the two of us, we left every step for washing a dish: a note on the soap ("Soap is your friend!"), by the
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    sponge ("Use me to scrub away dirt!"), the faucet ("You're almost there! Rinse here!"), and the towel ("Last step! Dry, then put away!") I was the first to leave the next morning. Upon returning home, the sink was empty, and a single post-it remained: "I don't appreciate the passive-aggression."
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    Grouchy-Ad4338 12 hr. ago Really? I mean what was that when Nell left a note. My my she seemed to have virtually no self realization! Great job OP and Petra. You rubbed this point in well. Or should I say that you soaped it in?
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    stinstin555 · 11 hr. ago I would have left a note on the dish soap that said... Nell, if you cannot take it...don't dish it out.
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    BeautifulPhantom1 12 hr. ago LOL since she used a post- it herself, if it had been saved, could have used her own note as well. The extra notes were hilarious!
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    JoKing1230 11 hr. ago Leave a note 'i don't appreciate your hypocrisy'. (This advice is not intended to make your relationship with them better.)
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    DynkoFromTheNorth · 10 hr. ago You should've added a last sticky note to hers: Please keep using sticky note as the primary way to voice your grievances!
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    Willum Dafoe On Earth. 10 hr. ago That's not revenge, we call that "returning the favor." It sounds betterer.
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    eighty_more_or_less · 3 hr. ago better still: "returning the flavour....."
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    9lobaldude 12 hr. ago What goes around comes around
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    Rapptap 8 hr. ago Learning how to nicely give negative feedback to others is truly a life skill that people are terrified to learn.
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    EzAwnDown. 8 hr. ago Nell got Nell'd! Hey Nell go Nell yourself! :)
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    El_Culero_Magnifico if you can't take it, don't dirty-dish it! · 9 hr. ago
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    New_Koala_8398 7 hr. ago I would have left a sticky note that said "Same."
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    Thepines1852 12 hr. ago Hahahaha! I bet she will think twice before leaving another petty note!
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    Whovian Ravenclaw 11 hr. ago In the immortal words of Commander Lawrence "Do you have an irony deficiency?"

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