‘I won’t babysit again under these circumstances’: Teenage Babysitter Feels Taken Advantage of After More Kids Show Up Than Expected, Mother Explodes and Says It’s In the Past

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    Posted by u/CricketImportant2536 5 hours ago [ AITA for refusing to babysit for a family again because they took advantage of me last time?
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    I (16 F) am a babysitter and I babysat for a family I have never babysat for before. They have a baby that's only a couple months old, a 4 year old boy & a 4 year old girl (and are paying me 12/hr) As you can imagine they are all on the smaller side and require lots of attention. when the parents were about to leave their friends came over and dropped of thier 4 year
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    old. I am not getting paid extra and this was not communicated with me ahead of time. The parents brought her to me and said that she goes to bed at the same time as the others and gave me a quick smile before leaving. I babysat the kids for 6 hours. I was wondering if I should i bring it up to the parents or should i just let it go since it's only one extra kid? It
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    just kinda seems unfair that there was no communication to me about it and im supposed to feed this extra kid, get her ready for bed, keep her entertained & put her to sleep. In the end i decided to do nothing about it and told myself that it wasn't that big of a deal, my parents and friends have since said that i was being taken
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    advantage of.. Yesterday the mother texted me asking if i would babysit for her kids again while she went out. I declined telling her that I didn't feel comfortable babysitting with her again because she didn't communicate with me last time and i felt blindsided. She snapped back by telling me that i was very rude and it was in the past. She said I should've said
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    something then and that it is my fault for not telling her how I felt. I feel really bad but my parents told me that she is trying to guilt trip me since I'm only 16 and she thinks that she can. I haven't responded to her messages because I am unsure of if I am in the wrong. So am I the a hole here?
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    Lozzy Bee18 5 hr. ago . NTA. 12/hr is wayy too low of a price point. You should have been paid more especially if you are caring for 3 kids. [in addition to having to babysit for a 4th unexpected child]. Shes the A for expecting you to babysit another kid
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    to babysit another kid and not communicating with you about it - big NO. Do NOT babysit for her. Do NOT let her guilt trip you. Do NOT tolerate her behaviour.
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    In the future, you shouldn't have to justify your reasoning as to why you can't babysit someone's children - eg. her children in this case. I feel like you should give her the reason of being uncomforable. Just tell her that you are
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    unavailable. Block her number. I would also think about what prices you would charge for babysitting. I know that some people have a baseline price for 1 child and then an additional cost for multiple children (maybe
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    a couple of dollars more added onto the baseline price per child] - this is completly up to you. For example maybe $12/hr for one child and then maybe a couple of more dollars [$2-5] extra per child.
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    patterson_2384. 4 hr. ago Aficionado [11] in my area, the MINIMUM rate for 1 kid (over 4) is $14/hour, $17 for kids under 4 (or arent potty trained).
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    (and thats the teenager/not certified rate) add $4 per kid per hour, and usually limit the total # of kids.
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    you are a very affordable babysitter which is why the mom took advantage of you. dont reply back to her. its only going to get worse.
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    GardenSafe8519. 4 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surge... Too low. 40 years ago I was paid $15/hr to watch 5 kids (2 from one family, 3 from another that wanted to get together). Kids
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    together). Kids ranged in age from 4-10.
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    ChewieBearStare . 4 hr. ago Partassipant [1] Heck, I got paid $15/hour in 2003-ish to babysit my professor's dog for 4 hours. I got paid 60 bucks to watch TV with a dog in my lap, and all I had to do
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    and all I had to do was feed her and let her out to pee.
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    Zelda_is_the_Prncess. 4 hr. ago I agree with the changing your prices. 25 years ago I got paid $12 to babysit 3 kids. I repeat, 25 years ago...
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    OPS starting point should be $12-15, adding $2-5 per each additional child. Further more, if it is someone else's kid being added last minute, I would tell her that's gonna be an additional $12 per hour. The other parent should be able to pay you that. The
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    price more so for the inconvenience than anything else.
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    International_Mix152. 3 hr. ago NTA-The fact that she got angry with you and turned it around on blaming you would be enough to not babysit for her again.
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    BetweenWeebandOtaku 5 hr. ago Commander in Cheeks [261] NTA. Yeah they're trying to take advantage and mom's attitude here just proves they'd do it again if given the chance. "You should have said something." You just did. And hello hypocrisy for HER not saying there'd be an extra kid for no extra money.
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    Judge things by the situation, not by people's emotional response. The mom is trying to throw you off by acting like you're the bad guy. You aren't. It's your labor, so it's your choice.

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