‘You disgust me!': Woman's Freeloading Boyfriend Scolds Her Sister for Leaving Period-Covered Underwear on Her Own Bathroom Floor

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    "You're more A a than welcome to leave...❞
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    AITA for lashing out at sisters boyfriend over period
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    Throwaway Everyone mentioned is early 20s. My best friend (F), stepsister, and have all lived together for a year. Things are great, we all do our part, the only issue is step sisters boyfriend, Sam. My best friend and I aren't the biggest fan of him. He's arrogant, petty, and SO entitled. Her and I are very relaxed
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    people, so we're cordial with him and get along for the most part. A few (of MANY) examples of his bu ttery: 1. If I leave for more than 5 mins he moves his car into my spot. 2. He will happily move my kitchen, bathroom, etc stuff as he pleases. 3. Helps himself to everything we own, including food. 4. If we have a different opinion on anything he will explain every reason why I'm wrong.
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    I've asked nicely a few times for some of this to change. It hasn't, so I just ignore it most of the time. The issue at hand: I just experienced the most excruciating period of my life. I had to stay home from work because of how bad it was and I only left my room for the necessities. I woke up in the middle of the night with intense cramps,
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    so I took a bath. Accidentally left my underwear which had a stain on it (the girls don't have an issue with this). However, Sam had the biggest bh fit over it. First of all, sometimes he comes over late as h l and I genuinely didn't know he was there. Second, it's partly my house? Anyways, when I woke up the next morning he didn't hesitate to lecture me
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    on how disgusting it was, how can I live like that, I'm inconsiderate, etc. What got me was the "I technically live here" comment. Where I might be the AH: I lost it. "Technically, you DON'T live here. You are a sc my little freeloader who has absolutely no respect for others. If my period make you uncomfortable,
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    I'll make sure to hide a pair in absolutely everything you touch. Fk you” something of the sort. My step sister took his side, which p sed me off because I know she did it to avoid arguing with him. So I followed with "you come into my room once a week to talk about how he's a piece of
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    st, i don't want to hear it from you" and I went to my room. They've been at his parents house for 2 days (when this happened), and I haven't responded to the mass messages telling me if I want to broadcast my period I should live on my own.
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    I only slightly feel like a d k because I was raised better than to talk to others like that. But on the other hand, I'm a good roommate. I'm clean, I provide the most for the house (not a jab at the girls, just Sam, who contributes NOTHING), and it's over some god d In period My best friend agrees, but my step sister and Sam won't let up. My parents think I should just apologize to keep the peace. AITA?
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    SuzyVeeP Partassipant [2] NTA NTA NTA!! Perhaps you used language that you regret, but your message was 100% appropriate. If you truly feel bad about what you said to your step sister, than apologize to her, but you have NOTHING to apologize for to MoocherGuy.
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    If he isn't on the lease or contributes to the bills and rent, he is an unwelcome guest who has no right to b te you in your own home. And if your periods are getting worse, culminating in the nightmare of pain and discomfort you just experienced,
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    please go have a checkup? Low dose birth control as well as some super common herbs can help. Good luck, little sister!! Don't let MoocherGuy push you around!
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    randomchoice75 OP This makes me feel better. I do feel bad for my sister, I only said it because it infuriates me that she knows hes ks, but it felt like her picking him over me. It was personal and I do plan on apologizing.
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    As for BC, I just got off after 4 years. The doctor said this may happen, so I was prepared but didn't expect how bad it was going to be. Thank you for your concern and kind words though :)
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    Agitated_Cheek4890. 11 mo. ago Honestly if I were you I'd start soaking tampons in tomato juice and start pelting him with them.
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    Skyisthelimit111794 Oh so so so so NTA. I don't know why we as a society insist on coddling men and "protecting" them for a freaking normal monthly bodily process that ironically is entwined with what used to be considered our main contribution to society.
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    Sorry, apart from my soap box, he is seriously ridiculous and needs to grow the eff up. If he expects to not find evidence of periods in a home of three women, then maybe he should start batting for the other team.
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    CandleMagnum 11 mo. ago Partassipant [3] • God bless you. NTA. You stood up for yourself. Parents always want to keep the peace but he doesn't basically live there, if he does your step sister needs to tell him he needs to start paying or contributing something. In fact your sister should have had
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    him contributing as soon as he spent so much time there and repeatedly touched, ate, and moved things. You again are NTA. He needed someone to finally yell at him and tell him how he's behaving in another persons home is not okay. He has absolutely NOTE ING RIGHT to lecture you on how you
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    live and call you inconsiderate because he's there all the time. The only person I would talk to would be your sister. I would say "starters I'm not sorry, if care and love him that is your choice but I stand by my point that on the worst period of my life I didn't need him lecturing me and telling me I should be considerate to him in my our
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    home. However I feel bad for yelling at you. Instead of immediately taking his side on him doggy me for leaving in the bathroom after a bath you should have told us to calm down and said you understood the pain I was in. So yeah when you immediately just
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    there and I'm gross id g you down too." She lives there but this is a wake up call that things should change. Like to overnight or daily visitor rules
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    WorldlyBarber215 He doesn't paid rent and now you know how to get him to leave.

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