Married man finds a secret folder on his wife's laptop where he makes a spine-chilling discovery: 'There were over 300 photos of MY ex'

Advertisement
  • 01
    In this Google album were over 300 pho I found my wife's secret The Google account and I'm righ sick to my stomach star yas two weeks ago. Th recently as two The weeks ago. The pho
  • 02
    I (M36) met my wife 'Bailey' (F33) nine years ago through mutual coworkers and we hit it off immediately. I fell absolutely head over heels with this woman, she was everything I was looking for. I had gotten out of a toxic
  • 03
    relationship right before that with a woman Bailey had been acquainted with, but not friends with. I had her blocked on everything, and had no contact with her since breaking up. We got married right after the tail end of the pandemic, bought our first
  • 04
    house together, and started trying to conceive. That was difficult because Bailey has PCOS, but last year she finally gave birth to our first daughter. I'm having a blast being a dad, it's kind of a dream come true. I finally got my happy life with my perfect wife. My perfect wife! Until last Monday.
  • 05
    the bed, so I My laptop's battery opened up Bailey's work tablet with an attached keyboard (you can set it up like a monitor) to check on some tax stuff. She wasn't home, it was just me and the baby, but we've never asked permission to use each others devices, we've always been open like that. There's nothing for us to hide. That's what I thought.
  • 06
    When I opened up the internet I noticed she had the 'incognito' tab open. Never in a million years did I expect to discover what I did.
  • 07
    My wife has a secret Google account with a photo album saved called " So I clicked on it. Did I discover an affair? Nudes? Nope.
  • 08
    In this Google album were over 300 photos (348 actually) of MY ex. The woman I was with right before I met Bailey. The woman who tormented me and made me feel worthless.
  • 09
    The album said it was started back right around the time Bailey and I started dating, and was updated as recently as two weeks ago. The photos range from candid shots with family, to pictures at her work functions.
  • 10
    There were even pictures from her YEARBOOK, I don't know how Bailey could have found her high school year book photos? Photos from vacations, ID photos from work, pictures of her in crowds, screenshots of videos, and screen recordings of videos. Just her. The other people in the photos would be scribbled out, or the photo would be cropped and zoomed in just on my ex.
  • 11
    There was other disturbing things I found too, there was another album with just zoomed up pictures of my ex's hair. Come to think of it, Bailey had recently started wearing her hair different and my ex had a very identifiable hair type. There was
  • 12
    another album with screenshoots of comments on social media, of course I can't find them because I have her blocked. Like, Facebook groups she's in and public posts. And my ex is very lowkey on social media. I can't imagine the lengths Bailey went to find them? My ex literally lives in another country now.
  • 13
    There were also different links to the exact outfits she was wearing, like very specific blouses and trousers you'd have to really go looking for to find, a specific water bottle I remembered her purchasing, and identical hiking boots and sandals.
  • 14
    So basically, my partner of almost a decade has been single white femaling my ex girlfriend, has secretly stalked her to the point of buying her exact clothes and changing her hair, and now I'm starting to realize Bailey's new interests over the years were just my ex's. Bailey has turned herself into my ex.
  • 15
    Everything feels like a lie. Our love feels like a lie. The things we share feel like a lie. I threw up and had a panic attack. I looked at our daughter and felt betrayed. I haven't confronted her yet. I don't know if I want to. I want to run away with our daughter. I want to print out all her pictures, leave them on the table, and disappear. I don't know what to do, I just want to throw up.
  • 16
    -Shmai- 22 hr. ago Holy cow. That definitely is alarming. The best thing to do is address it now to see what'll change if she no longer has someone to replicate. The toxic side of me would slowly start mentioning things like, "you know, you really do remind me of someone." And nonchalantly bite into an apple and walk away
  • 17
    MolassesStock6055 OP 20 hr. ago My ex and I were in a serious relationship for 7 years. Bailey had met her several times at a certain community event that the whole town goes to, so they knew about each other, but passing.
  • 18
    MediaExact6352.15 hr. ago Any chance Bailey may have had something to do with your breakup with ex? As in, maybe she somehow manipulated the situation so she could start dating you?
  • 19
    willtheadequate. 4 hr. ago Folder wasn't started until after he and the ex broke up. The incidental evidence points to Bailey being involved in the breakup being unlikely. Otherwise, that would have been a wise conclusion to explore!
  • 20
    bonnydoe 21 hr. ago I think obsession is the word. She must feel very low about her own looks. 459 Reply Share miguelduaije 7 hr. ago She needs to see a therapist asap. It is impossible to know from this text the underlying cause of this obsession.
  • 21
    meipsus 21 hr. ago She is trying to please you, even if in a very unhealthy way. You could tell her you don't like this or that she does (to her appearance, behavior, whatever) because it reminds you of your "disgusting ex". Keep doing it subtly and she'll probably realize she's doing the wrong thing.

Tags

Scroll Down For The Next Article