‘You didn't realize you married someone so lazy, huh': Woman Gets Even With Husband Who Chastises Her at Shop for Wanting to Use Car to Move Heavy Furniture, He Ends up Carrying It All Alone

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    You didn't realise you married someone so lazy huh?
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    Last week my husband and I went shopping. We came out of one shop and wanted to go to another which was the other side of the car park. We walked over and there were no trolleys (what we wanted was packed into 4 heavy boxes and was awkward to carry across a large carpark) so I said I'd drive the car over. It's one of those shops where you order at the till and they bring it from the warehouse to the till and you take it to your car.
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    Well he called me lazy for wanting to move the car. I tried explaining my side but no, he was adamant I was lazy. I went and moved the car because the f k was I putting my back out carrying an outdoor table and chairs set to the car! He berated whilst we waited in the queue, calling me lazy, saying he didn't realise he married someone so lazy etc. I ended up leaving the shop without the table and chairs because he kept pushing for a reaction.
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    Today, we went back to said shops. He said he would go get the table and chairs while I went into another shop. Guess what, no trolleys. He rang me and asked me to drive the car over. Did I? Did I fk, that's lazy! He started to get pied and realised he didn't have a leg to stand on. He carried each box separately from the shop to the car. 4 trips there and back. Each time he asked me to move the car and I said that it was lazy and I didn't realise I married someone so lazy.
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    Edit for all the people getting their twist in a No, I'm not nesting, the furniture is for my parents Yes, I'm waiting on my lawyer to do their thing then I can serve him the divorce papers Edit 2 Just woke up to hundreds of Reddit notifications
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    I'm not gunna read all the comments but I skimmed a few and jesus some of the speculation is WILD Imao. You could have just asked me for more info, but I guess that would have ruined your narrative lol.... Some of you really do have two brain cells fighting for third place. I contacted my lawyer regarding divorce 10 days ago, this petty revenge happened yesterday. I will hand him the papers with witnesses just incase his behaviour takes a turn for the worse again. He's recently started to threat
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    He's treated me like s! ** for WAY too along. No matter how many times ive communicated with him about it, he still continues to treat me like sl`t. His escalation to threats of v ce proves to me he doesn't care. I'm not begging him to treat me better anymore. I deserve better. If that makes me an as le then so be it, I'm an a le
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    itsallinth3wrists . 17 hr. ago Work smarter, not harder. Also, to quote Bill Gates, "I choose a lazy person to do a hard job. Because a lazy person will find an easy way to do it." People need to get off their moral high horse. 3.1k Reply Share looking-out 15 hr. ago I like the remark that No one is giving you an award for doing it the hard way. There's not real reason to choose to suffer when there is a simple alternative. 317 Reply Share
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    My_Lovely_Me 17 hr. ago This literally sounds exactly like my relationship with (and this is the important part) my ex. Luckily, I didn't marry mine! Sorry about yours! 736 Reply Share Secretpies OP. 17 hr. ago Luckily divorce is a thing 596 Reply Share
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    psididitagen 18 hr. ago This seems healthy 1.9k Reply Share rockocoman 18 hr. ago I broke up with a guy for screaming at me for changing lanes before it was necessary. That's what this feels like 1.2k Reply Share
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    Mad-Dog20-20 - 17 hr. ago Each time he asked me to move the car I am totally rolling here! 221 Reply Share soggymuse 5 hr. ago Car wasn't, though. 41 Reply Share
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    AgingLolita 18 hr. ago Your husband shouldn't speak to you like that. It's not normal. 361 Reply Share microsoft 17 hr. ago Agree. It is hostile and disrespectful. Not a sign of a good person and partner. ↑ 132 Reply Share
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    AHRA1225 18 hr. ago Funny as hell but isn't healthy 458 Reply Share MyHusbandIsGayImNot 15 hr. ago The fact that she stood up for herself and shared the story shows she knows it's not healthy. (And the edits and other comments help). What really isn't healthy are the people in relationships like this that don't do petty revenge because they just accept their sly partner. 151 Reply Share ...
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    OrdinaryOxymoron. 17 hr. ago Yes, let him eat is words! Mwuahaha! ;D Being logistically smart is not being lazy. 33 Reply Share mishabear16 13 hr. ago Working smarter is not lazy. Why bring five boxes to one car when you can bring one car to five boxes? Sorry you married such a m n. 24 Reply Share
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    Purple_Cat_302 - 17 hr. ago Wow, if my husband ever talked to me that way I'd be single 89 Reply Share Secretpies OP 16 hr. ago All in good time! 116 Reply Share
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    Hantelbank 15 hr. ago Waiting on a lawyer to do your divorce papers?? lol so lazy ugh 47 Reply Share JesKes97 8 hr. ago Ln JOO 7 Reply Share
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    Anxious_Public_5409 14 hr. ago I Actually thought this was funny and it was the perfect way to have him eating his words! I would have done the exact same thing tbh. I don't care if I get down voted. I always work smarter and not harder sometimes working “harder” (like carrying the boxes all the way across a parking lot) has gotten me physically hurt! So yeah I will take the car every god d. POS! time! Yep! I'm a lazy 23 Reply Share ...
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    damageplan417. 18 hr. ago LOL yeah this marriage is done 115 Reply Share Secretpies OP. 17 hr. ago 100% 131 Reply Share
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    AngerPancake 10 hr. ago Laziness is a puritanical myth designed to make people feel guilty about resting, which is necessary for a healthy life. He's full of sh and acts like a toddler throwing fits about things that absolutely do not matter. I'm Happy you're leaving him. You deserve someone that smiles at you for saving time and literal back breaking work. Good luck. 17 Reply Share
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    Pretend-Traffic6573 16 hr. ago Imagine getting mad for making a task easier Why do people even get married if they are gonna insult their partner that that 16 Reply Share ...
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    Salty-Yogurt-123. 16 hr. ago How the turntables... glad you're not willing to put up with that toxicity. 13 Reply Share
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    TriGurl 17 hr. ago Very petty and funny AF but realistically this relationship sounds entirely unhealthy. 24 Reply Share Secretpies OP. 17 hr. ago Because it is. Hopefully my lawyer pulls his finger out soon and I can serve him the divorce papers 78 Reply Share ...
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    TsuDhoNimh2.10 hr. ago So you wanting to move the car is lazy. But his wanting to move the car is ... not lazy? Nice double standard there. 11 Reply Share ...
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    Cfwydirk 18 hr. ago I am sorry your husband was raised by wolves. My family (like yours) taught me to work smarter, not harder. A good woman teaches her loved ones these things! Going forward, I think he has learned. 66 Reply Share

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