Weddings are a joyous event. Marriage represents the union of two families on a larger scale, as well as the union of two persons on a micro level. If your future mother-in-law refused to accept the fact that you were now a formal member of the family, how would you respond? Would you try to make things right, or would you just accept things as they are and give up while you're ahead?
The story that follows tells the tale of a perplexed mother-in-law. The original poster (OP) expresses doubts about her anticipated role in the life of her future daughter-in-law. OP got a request from her future daughter-in-law to set up a traditional cookie table ahead of the wedding. The bride-to-be wants OP to prepare the table instead of her mother, who typically takes care of it because she doesn't seem to get along well with her family. Though it requires a great deal of trust and courage to make a gesture such as this, the bride was left in tears of anguish when OP turned down her request for assistance.
So, be sure to read the story below if you're interested in learning the specifics of what happened and whether or not OP granted her daughter-in-law's wishes! Once you've finished reading, don't forget to read the account of the MIL who fights with her SIL over his decision to keep photos of his late wife for his kids!
