'They left without me': Family leaves daughter behind when they go on vacation, texting photos of resort after weeks of radio silence

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Eleonora Bader
May 6, 2024 5:00 PM EDT

Forgetful parents are one thing, but when they fail to tell you they're going on vacation, that's a whole other can of worms.

I remember my parents once forgot to tell me that they were visiting my state. When I found out (via pictures on Facebook, mind you) I was absolutely livid. I could have taken time off to spend with them but instead, I was stuck on a big project and couldn't drop everything at the last second. Plus, I didn't even really want to see them at that point. How could they forget to mention such a big thing, or tell me when they arrived?

One person had a similar experience and posted the amusing (but also infuriating) story to r/mildlyinfuriating. Their parents had gone to a fancy resort, and texted some photos to the family group chat. The original poster was shocked. Scroll down to read how it all played out. 

Afterward, here are some hilarious memes for overworked employees with the Monday blues.

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    KA "They left without me."
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    How I found out that my family was going on vacation
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    B Today 9:50 AM DORMOMU Ive come To Bargain! Anyone coming to join us in City? Balding Baby (Dad) Well. Here is our resort. We invited you all to come join us. We reserved three bedroom very nice resort with pool and hot tub. Sending pics of our room n stuff.
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    B Wait what?
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    I woke up this morning to this message and was surprised and confused to learn my parents had planned a family vacation and hadn't told me anything about it. The only conversation that I can vaguely recall about this had to have happened ago WEEKS ago. My dad mentioned it like it was something they wanted to do but hadn't solidified yet. I told them something along the lines of, "yeah that sounds fun! Just let me know the dates that you're planning to go so I can be sure to have work off so I ca
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    Radio silence for weeks, then this pops up in the family group chat. My parents are already at the resort. I called them to figure out what was up and they claim that they told me verbally and that should have been enough. Also I'm apparently the only one of my siblings who was out of the loop so that kind of stings. What's frustrating is that it I had today off from work and I could have made it up with them if I had known about it and hadn't decided to pick up an extra shift assuming that I ha
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    parents and I live ten minutes away from each other max so going up together wouldn't have been any hassle at all if I had only known this was going on!! Luckily it's only an hour and a half away so I can still make it, I will just have to scramble to pack and find a cat sitter tonight once I've made it back from work so I'm not driving in the dark. I just wish I had more of a heads up.
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    matriarch-momb. 11 hr. ago There are four of us kids in our family. My mom tells one of us something twice and then doesn't tell another. 13.0k Reply Share FullExposure_ · 10 hr. ago My moms tells the four of us something different each time. It's . . . Exciting. 964 Reply Share
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    Southern_Anywhere_65 · 10 hr. ago My parents always assume I'll attend functions but never give me a heads up. It's infuriating. 925 Reply Share marnas86 10 hr. ago I had to lay down some ground rules with mine. If you want me to attend something and it's this week/weekend and in the city and a one-night engagement, let me know by the Monday morning of the week. If you want me to come somewhere out of the city or if it's a multiple-night event, then you need to let me know a month in advance.
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    boxedcrackers · 10 hr. ago This reminds me of a story. When I was in basic training, one of my buddies couldn't get ahold of his family for weeks. Turns out they moved. And didn't tell him where they had moved to. He was only 17. He literally had no idea where his mom dad and sister had gone to. 4.5k Reply Share
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    Wendigo_6.7 hr. ago My parents did the same thing while I was gone for the summer (I was also 17). They packed my car full of my stuff and left it at my girlfriend's house. When I got home I called my mom and asked for their address so I could get the rest of my stuff. She gave me their PO Box address. 1.8k Reply Share
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    • Spiritual-Bear4495 · 10 hr. ago When I was a kid, my brother had a friend that used to stay at our house for days and days. One time he stayed for six days and when he went home he found out his mother had moved. She never told him. 397 Reply Share thatsmallblonde 9 hr. ago This happened to my mother in law! When she was a teenager she went on a trip to Europe for a few weeks and came home to find their house empty. She had to ask the neighbors for her parents new address. 207 Reply Share ...
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    RepresentativeBite76. 11 hr. ago My family is bad for bragging and intentionally not telling me till after the fact. Haven't seen my parents in almost 2 years but they been to my town plenty of times without telling me, sending photos of s after 1.5k Reply Share
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    ItsOnlyaBook 10 hr. ago This is exactly the correct kind of post for this sub! It sounds a lot like my parents. My Mom will tell my Dad to tell me something, and then later my Dad will say "Yeah, I talked to him" and so now they both assume I have been told the information. But really my Dad forgot completely and is just saying yes to avoid an argument. And then because this is how his brain works, the lie becomes the truth in his mind so it's somehow my fault for forgetting this information tha
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    DobbyDoes Dallas . 10 hr. ago At least they sent texts during. TWICE when I was in college I came home one random weekend to listen to my parents and two siblings talk about how great their vacation to Cancun was a couple of weeks before. I was like... y'all went on vacation and didn't invite me OR even mention it at any point? I was a sophomore the first time and only an hour away. Two years later they did it again! 143 Reply Share
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    . Rhuarc33 12 hr. ago Probably thought they told you. If it was on purpose they wouldn't send pics of the place with you in the group. Don't listen to stupid as redditors who always go to immediate overreacting telling you to cut your family out of your life. 2.6k Reply Share Starbotcar OP. 11 hr. ago Oh no of course! My relationship with my family is great, they are just horrible at communicating. If I thought it had been done on purpose I wouldn't have been posting it on "mildly" infuriated ca
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    . MapleGoose 9 hr. ago My family all met up in another province without telling me once. My parents went to see one sibling and their kid and my other sibling and family met up with them from OUT OF COUNTRY. They visited my uncle etc. I had no idea it was happening until I saw them all posting pictures on Facebook. My siblings assumed my parents had invited me. My parents (I think) assumed I wouldn't be able to go with my young children and work and etc. 6 years ago and I'm still pretty bitter a
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    Chardan0001 · 10 hr. ago My family planned holidays two years in a row during my end year exams despite me telling then. They were in utter disbelief I wouldn't go each time lol 143 Reply Share
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    lordpresidentSkippy. 10 hr. ago that's me with my family always an after thought. one time my father and my brother (and their families) were having a get together and a supper when they suddenly remembered it was my f ng birthday. of course i didn't know about that but they then invite me to go and im like oh wow they remembered this year and prepared something nice for once. they probably would have gotten aways with it too but my dad brain d d gf just straight up told me like it was a funny a
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    ValkyrieVibeke . 6 hr. ago My mom and most of my sister's decided to have a girls' trip one weekend while my dad, brother, and BIL were hunting. They didn't invite me or tell me until they were already there. Then, when we had a family dinner a few days later, all they could talk about was how much fun it was. I finally blew up at them and stormed out of the house.
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    ShiraCheshire - 8 hr. ago I feel your pain. I once found out that my family was going camping when my aunt text me from the campsite to tell me I needed to take care of her animals while she was gone. That meant I needed to feed her cats, scoop the litter, feed her fish (despite her having left no care instructions on what they ate and how much), and do an entire water change on two of her three fish tanks. No one had even mentioned they were going camping.
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