‘I would be a great mother’: Boyfriend and His Children Cause Chaos in Girlfriend’s Home, Her Boyfriend Insults Her By Telling Her She’d Be a Terrible Mom After She Kicks Them Out

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    r/AITAH 12 hr. ago TimeContribution8625 AITA for kicking my BF out because I have zero intentions of playing a parental role to his disrespectful children?
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    My BF of 2 years is pulling the "you really ended things because my kid asked a but that's not the case. question"
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    BFs kids (7yo boy and 10yo girl) have been coming and staying here somewhat often for the past 5 or 6 months and it's been My food bill went from $350-$400 a month to $1100. My house is constantly trashed. I now have holes in my walls and broken controllers because the 7yo has severe anger issues whenever he is playing video
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    games (he gets an hour a day per dad's rules). My BF contributes to the bills but not nearly enough to make up for the money I've been dishing out since his kids started coming here and he can't afford to pay any extra because of child support and medical insurance. And to be blunt, I'm tired of looking like the because I'm the only one who
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    steps up and tells his kids to cut when they are doing the anything wrong. The problems are mainly with the 7yo. Every time I tell him to do anything, he throws a fit and asks his sister to do it for him. Refuses to even get his own cereal because he "doesn't want to" and will call his sister stupid or
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    retarded if she says no. Or pull the "this is why I hate my life" or "this is why no one likes you" talk. If I tell him not to do something, he will absolutely make a problem out of it by asking the dumbest, most obvious questions. Like I said to him the other day "stop touching things" because he would not stop things up and he goes
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    "so I can't touch the floor? I can't touch the air?" Or last night, when I kicked them out, it was because I told him he wasn't allowed to eat past 1pm anymore (talking about lunch) because that kid will decide that he's finally ready to eat lunch 20 minutes to an hour before I make dinner and then refuse to eat his food and wastes it. He goes "so I
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    can't eat dinner anymore?" And his dad goes "valid point". Are you kidding? So I kicked them out. Told my BF I would be damned that I play the role of a parent to a giant man child and his disrespectful children. Now he's telling everyone I kicked him and his kids out because I was I that his son asked me a question.
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    I'm not regretting kicking them out, at all. Good riddance. But he has since told me that I would make a terrible mother and that I with children am absolutely and where I have zero patience, I should stay away from people with kids so I don't other poor kids life" with my attitude. AITA? some
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    LobstahLovahRI • 11h ago NTA! He makes a terrible father for not disciplining his own children! Letting his kids treat you that way is so crazy! he needs to get counseling for the 7-year- old as well, or no woman would ever live with him again. Tell everyone what really happened and let
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    them know it is your right to live in a drama free home where nobody can break your furniture or destroy things of value. As for him, feel free to go N/C since he doesn't care about you one bit!
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    . Hemenucha 11h ago NTA. He can't see his own shortcomings, so of course everything has to be YOUR fault.
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    I'd just roll with it and say, "Yeah, I threw you out because your son asked a question. Whatever. Just stay gone and answer his smart- questions yourself."
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    . MameDennis1974 • 11h ago NTA. Honey, he wanted to use you as a free nanny. Good riddance to the lot of them.
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    Vicious_Lilliputian 11h ago . NTA. He is a father with rude, entitled children. Just ignore his remarks and move on with your life.
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    BigSun6576 11h ago NTA - honestly I'd rather be dead than deal with men throwing their kids at me and throwing a tantrum when I refuse (I'm not saying only men do this, I only date. men)
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    glad you dumped him and you did the right thing.
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    2npac • 9h ago NTA...at 7 yrs that little devil is learning that attitude and language from somewhere. Your ex is projecting is lack of parental skills on you. Dealing with a family like that is absolutely not worth it. him and them kids (except for the 10yo since
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    it. him and them kids (except for the 10yo since she was barely mentioned)
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    Late-External3249 • 9h ago There's a reason he is a single father...

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