‘You need to sleep on the floor’: Boyfriend Tells His Girlfriend She Needs to Leave the Bedroom When He Comes Home From Work, Insisting That He Needs a Good Night’s Sleep

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    r/AITAH ⚫ 16 hr. ago Cucumbertrees My bf wants me to sleep on the floor.
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    My bf M (35) works overnight and every morning between 4am and 6am when he's off I'm F(24) asked to leave the room so can he can receive a good rest. Am I selfish for not wanting to leave the bedroom when he comes in from work. He says I'm being selfish whenever I don't leave the room, He says me sleeping beside him makes the room
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    extremely hot and that my movements wake him up. But for me sleeping out in the living. room for another few hours is uncomfortable and I hate it... it's extremely brighter then our room as our bedroom has blackout curtains. The couch isn't big enough to lay on.. (it's technically. a love seat) and the floor is way too hard on my body. We own an
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    air mattress that I could sleep on but we also have a cat that would pop that baby in an instant. We also talked about buying a couch, but he's not willing to contribute to purchasing a couch (" because I'm the one who wants it") So what do I do in this situation?? | feel it's unfair I constantly have to sacrifice only 5-6hr of sleep for myself so that he could have a
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    peaceful eight hours. Am I wrong in this situation? And if I am how should I continue to go about it?
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    RedPenguino • 16h ago INFO: is there some arrangement aspect of this relationship that would allow for such discrepancy in equality? Like, why would you need to sacrifice your sleep for him? This is very confusing.
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    Live-Journalist-916 • 16h ago Move out.
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    SnooPandas4016 • 15h ago NTA. If he wants a good rest it sounds like he needs to get himself his own bed, or better still, his own place to f'ing live.
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    stevegannonhan... • 15h ago You should find someone who loves and respects you, as opposed to this clown you are currently with.
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    • yakkerswasnever... 15h ago And you live with this person? That's not a boyfriend. Not even a little bit.
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    Objective-Video-... • 15h ago Sincerely confused as to why he isn't the one being deferred to the couch here.
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    S... 16h ago • Edited 14h ago NTA he should live alone if he can't share a bed. Not sure why it needs pointing out but I'm referring specifically to this AH not all co-habiting couples.
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    Interesting-Rip-4... 15h ago This is unhinged behavior on his part lol. Why did he even want to move in??? Lol . If it was this important he should get a two bedroom apartment.
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    Your NTA but your boyfriend sounds like he's got a few screws loose.
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    shinepurple • 14h ago You need a new BF, not a couch
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    Revolutionary_A... • 15h ago girl, why are you letting this man treat you like Cinderella's step sisters treated Cinderella.
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    Break up. My guess is this selfish behavior and gaslighting isnt limited to just the sleep situation. If you turn off your rose colored glasses it probably permeates the whole relationship. ΝΤΑ
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    • Ehrillien942 15h ago Leave him and find someone closer to your age who won't think you're naive and easy to be manipulated due to the age gap. He wouldn't dare to make such a ridiculous demand to someone equal to him. He'd end up sleeping on the floor. himself, or single.
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    lynnlugg7777 • 15h ago NTA. I'm sorry he's treating you this way. Have you been together long? Has he always treated your needs as less than his own?
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    For a man 11 years older than you, he doesn't seem caring or mature. Again, I am sorry you are being treated like this.

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