Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. Marriages can be long and arduous, a journey of tenacity, patience, and respect. When one person feels disrespected, it's easy to be offended, but maybe not to the point where you back out of the marriage. Everyone is different, and everyone's threshold for treatment they're willing to take is different. A betrayal can look like many things; it doesn't always look like cheating, but it is always a form of lying or deceit. It's more than painful to be betrayed by your partner, regardless of what it is. It's the ultimate form of disrespect, and it's hard to build trust back once you've broken it.
This takes us to our Reddit piece. The couple is married, and they live in the husband's childhood home after his parents passed away. He's been noticing some peculiar behavior on her part; hiding her phone and making secret calls. What he finds out shocks him, and I can't blame him for wanting out.