Controlling aunt berates 16-year-old niece for trying to eat 3 plates of food, faces anger from her mom: 'She's been working all day without anything to eat'

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Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
Aug 13, 2024 4:00 PM EDT

One of the many great things about food is that it is something that brings people together. This is especially true when it comes to family. Who hasn't tried to put aside their differences for the sake of making it through Thanksgiving dinner? 

Unfortunately, it's also true that what we eat can sometimes be a point of contention with those we are related to. Arguments related to dietary choices are not uncommon, as one teenager recently found out to her detriment. After a long day at work when she hadn't eaten, she and her mom were invited to eat at her aunt's house. The food was so good that she wanted to go for a third plate, but her aunt immediately scolded her for it. Her mom took issue with this, but her grandma agreed that it was "rude" for her to eat so much. 

When this dilemma was taken to the internet, it's fair to say that people were baffled by this stingy behavior. Surely, this is a compliment to the cook.

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    r/AmltheAsshole u/doglover233520.5h AITA for assuming my daughter could have a 3rd plate? Throwaway because my sister knows my reddit and I don't want this causing drama Yesterday, My sister hosted a family dinner at her house. It was one of those "just because" dinners, no special occasion. My sister is a great cook and she made tons of food for that one night. My daughter, was on her second plate by the end of the night. Once she finished she asked if she could get another one. I said yes. But
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    my place to say if my daughter could get more of her food that she made. Now I do somewhat agree with that, and might be the because of that. Looking back I'm thinking maybe I should have asked? My daughter ended up not getting another plate, and the vibe was awkward now so we just decided to go. Before we left out the door my sister stopped me and told me I should've taught my daughter manners and how it isn't right to get more than 1 plate at someone else's house. I told my sister she was bein
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    Fungusaur @Fungusaur 22h Replying to @Gentleman Rascal Every family meal I've been to is like: "Dinner will be ready at 5:00. Have some snacks while you're waiting." "Food's ready. There's plenty for everyone." "Do you want more?" "Did you get dessert?" "Take some home with you!"
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    Mr Bo The Cat @MrBoDaCat · 1d • Replying to @Gentleman Rascal obviously NOT italians
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    The Wealthy Wrist @Thewealthywrist Replying to @Gentleman Rascal Holy • Follow In ANY home I was in when I was 16, the cook would have been STOKED for someone having a 3rd plate. Its a compliment isnt it? THe whole "growing girl/boy" thing? NTAH IMO
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    monkeema ❤ @monkeema + 1d • Replying to @Gentleman Rascal I feel so sad for the daughter. The aunt and the grandmother are terrible humans and they should be ashamed of themselves.
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    Bruce F. Webster @bfwebster · 1d Replying to @Gentleman Rascal Oh, no. I always make too much food, and I try to send as much of it home with kids and grandkids as I can. In any case, I literally cannot imagine telling any guest, much less a family member, that they couldn't have a third (or fourth or...) plate. Related: Eating two burgers in a restaurant: greedy, people are shocked Eating two burgers at a BBQ: "Is that all you're having?! Here, have a sausage!"
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    SisuSnuSnu @TakkoJosh • 1d Replying to @Gentleman Rascal People deny family members food? weird
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    Ale @AleMarieMaxwell • 21h Replying to @Gentleman Rascal What kind of woman makes a scene about a teenager getting more food? I wonder if that extra plate was worth shaming her niece and putting a splinter in her relationships?
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    Julio Menendez @Julio Econ. 22h Replying to @Gentleman Rascal If you don't want your guests to eat seconds, they aren't your guests, they're your prisoners.
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    Jennifer @Off The HookWNana • 21h Replying to @Gentleman Rascal . It gets under my skin when people deny a hungry person food when they have it to give. Just absolutely awful people do that.
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    shauny @LacksPoP - 17h Replying to @Gentleman Rascal I would tell my sister she's too broke to have people over.
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    David AttenBruh @AlHendiify ⚫ 16h Don't wack me when I say those old crones wouldn't have said boy. if it was a 16 year old
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    skitittles@defnotadino • 16h *Italian confusion* If somebody leaves my house HUNGRY?? I have failed my ancestors. Embarrassing.
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    Delfi @GreatHouseOfDel 15h is everyone so American that nobody's gonna comment on the fact that a 16 year old girl has to be underfed all day because she's working TWO JOBS???? HELLO????????? I CAN'T BE THE ONLY ONE THAT'S HORRIFIED MORE BY THIS THAN BY THE AITA
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    Sibin @sibinmohan • 13h . In Indian homes, after you've eaten 3 plates and you're trying to fight off someone trying to refill your plate for the 4th time, there's still dessert and chai to come and finally, you've got to take home some leftovers. Who are these people who behave like this with family?
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    Shannon Sanders @ShandersWrites Follow Maybe I'm tripping but I think this whole thing is a misdirect and that the aunt was fat-shaming a teenager (which is like 100000% more common than stinginess in this sort of context)
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    Santi Ruiz @rSanti97 18h If you come from a family culture where what the girl did here is impolite, tell me. I want to understand.
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    Elijah the Middleborne @TheMiddleborne They are *not* from the South Follow
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    Matt Darling @besttrousers • 19h Scandinavian reddit where there is Discourse about whether the daughter should have had 1 plate.
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