Mother-in-Law Vindictively Books Yearly Family Vacation During the Due Date of Her 2nd Grandchild, Daughter-in-Law Relieved, Says: ‘I’m looking at the positives'

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    "They go every year, but I would assume this year they'd go at a later time because of the fact I'm literally about to give them another grandchild..."
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    On my due date, she books a family vacay.... My MIL texted my hubby and I asking when our due date was. I thought this was weird as she should already know this, since I've been trying to keep her updated with everything. It just seemed that she wasn't paying attention I guess...
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    anyways about 3 hours later I received a text in my in-laws family group chat that they booked their family vacation to Mexico a few days after my projected due date. I was SHOCKED. They go every year, but I would assume this year they'd go at a later time because of the fact I'm literally about to give them another grandchild (their second one might I add). My husband is equally, or even more upset by this than I am. I'm looking at the positives that they will be gone, and I'll be the one relax
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    Popular Sandwich2039 4h ago. • Good bye! I would be happy that I would have alone time with the baby. Basic Granolaa OP 4h ago Usually I would be over the moon upset, but I couldn't be happier to have them out of the country
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    tiny-pest • 4h ago Be happy. Say. Hope you enjoy the vacation. we will see you when baby gets first shots at 3 months. Can't wait to hear about it. Then stick to it as they are going out of the country, and who knows what they might contract so best for your family that the baby is protected by shots, so oops, I guess they can wait to see the baby. Hehe.
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    toddfredd 3h ago • This is a legitimate and smart precaution to take. My brother and SIL took a cruise through Europe and they came home with Covid. Your newborns health is the #1 priority
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    HmNotToday1308 3h ago • My mother in lae has done this every single time and then goes on Facebook pretending like she'd love to help out but "accidentally" booked the holiday then. Basic Granolaa OP. 3h ago HA do we have the same MIL?!
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    Savings_Tangerine442 3h ago • Mine did something similar. Booked a vacation (a week long one) a week after I gave birth - they knew that my husband has to return to work on this time, so I'm gonna be alone with a baby, recovering from a c-section. During my whole pregnancy they used to talk about all the help I'll be getting from them when the baby is here, but they didn't help with anything. They came to hospital unannounced (resulted in my BP going wild), talked about me and then went for thei
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    nn971 3h ago • This is going to be your biggest blessing! Enjoy your postpartum recovery in peace!
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    MaterialJob7080 4h ago There is 0 chance this was not done on purpose. Just keep a smile and remember what this MIL did to you. Remember it when she'll want any stays overnight, any "firsts", anything that might mean her input in anything about the baby. All in all, it's a fantastic gift she sent you.
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    IMAGINARIAN_photos • 4h ago Just make sure they don't breeze right on over when they get back. In a perfect world, you can keep those bacteria/germ vectors away from all 4 of you for a while...especially the baby, who will be vulnerable to international travelers and their "invisible wee beasties." (Referencing 'germs' from "Outlander.")
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    supremegoldie 3h ago • Girl she gave you a gift. Everyone on that trip can't. meet baby until a week after the first vaccines so you might even get to have Christmas in peace. You need to talk to ur husband and explain that with them traveling internationally once your child is so new/still baking even with flu shots and tdap boosters no meeting baby except through FaceTime. Especially with covid popping up again don't play with your child's health. Get on the same page and then let everyone kno
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    cutthestrings • 3h ago My ex in-laws went abroad for my due date, my ex MIL was so overbearing we were very surprised but I was secretly quite relieved! They didn't bother the time they were away (ok they're on holiday) but then on their return, cause I was overdue, messaged me DAILY with like "are you TRYING to keep her in?" I mean come on, now it's convenient for you? They were proper funny buggers
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    MysteriousDig9592 3h ago • I'd pray that they love Mexico and decide to stay So that MIL won't bother you anymore. Let me know if it works, and I'll pay a Mexico vacation for my MIL as well!
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    Effective-Hour8642 1h ago • If you're able, throw them a Bon Voyage party! Tell your husband not to be so upset. Look at what he's gaining! NO PARENTS OR FAMILY for interference and stress. So, you miss a trip. You're gaining a baby! Then they can wait the allotted time, you set, to meet the baby. You don't tell them this ahead of time of course. They can wait. GOD I hope that baby is on time. Mine was 6-days late.

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