Woman Turns 180 Degrees on Fiancé Immediately After Engagement, He Changes His Locks When She Tries to Steal His Golf Clubs

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Sep 17, 2024 2:00 PM EDT

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. You really never know how someone is going to be years down the line. As terrifying as it is, people can sometimes be really disciplined at hiding their true nature, or something might trigger them to behave in ways you've never seen before. 

This brings us to the Reddit thread. The original poster (OP) is a man who thought he was marrying the love of his life. Feeling like it was too good to be true to find someone this compatible with you, and feeling excited to build your life with the person you love most. But all of his ideas get turned upside down when she changes her behavior after the proposal…from having friends in his house until late hours, drinking all his alcohol, and even trying to steal his golf clubs, she proved herself to be untrustworthy. But read the full story for yourself to see all the juicy details. 

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  • 01
    It's nuts, we haven't even planned the wedding yet. The worst part was this Monday, when at work, I got a Nest Doorbell alert, checked and saw Sharon and one of her six new friends arriving at my place, going in, and exiting with my golf clubs. This set was a gift from my father, and it cost a pretty penny too, so Sharon
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    r/AITAH • 3 days ago Glittering_Trifle421 AITAH if I break up with my fiancee after she showed a startling change of behavior after getting engaged?
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  • 03
    I (M32) just recently proposed to my girlfriend of 2 years Sharon (F30), like a month and a half ago, and it feels like the second the ring got on her finger, her attitude and behavior took a total 180. The entire time we were dating, we seemed exceptionally compatible, and at least it. seemed we shared common beliefs and morals.
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  • 04
    Seven weeks ago, I proposed and she said yes and I felt like it was the happiest moment for the two of us. But not even a week later, it's like her attitude totally flipped. I thought I knew all her friends, but one day I came home and there were six women I've never seem before, and Sharon introduced me to them. I was
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  • 05
    curious as to why I was just now meeting them, when I already met Sharon's two best friends(Michelle and Octavia, both not present) over a year and a half ago. Sharon said she wanted to make sure we were a 'sure thing' before I met her 'inner circle'.
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    I found this strange, not to mention it was a weeknight and they were quickly draining my wine rack of wine. Sharon still had her own place, but she stayed with me so often she practically lives her. Still, I found it incredibly rude when they left, with four empty bottles of Rosé in their wake. I tried to talk to Sharon about having uninvited guests on
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  • 07
    weeknights and she dismissed my grievance very flippantly. More that she brushed me off.
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  • 08
    The following weeks she went out with 'the girls' several times, and when she brought 'the girls' to my place(twice without notice, once with notice to 'appease' me, her words), they all treated me like a butler, shaking their empty wine glasses at me for refills.
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  • 09
    After the fourth time, I made it clear that I will get a locked wine rack. Sharon just called me 'no fun' after that. It gets worse. Sharon decided me and 'the girls' got off on the wrong foot, and said we should have dinner together at a nice restaurant. Well, I went, and it was not great. The six kept prodding me about
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  • 10
    my life, my house, my career, but deflected every question I asked.
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    It got especially bad at night when they started talking about modern relationships and jealousy, and one of them brought up some key points about relationships that I thought Sharon and I were on the same page about(specifically what-ifs regarding polyamory and being friends with exes). To my shock,
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    Sharon said we shouldn't be 'too hasty' on such decisions, which was a total 180 to how she expressed herself on these things only a month prior(where she was vehemently against keeping ex intimate partners in friends circles and was staunchly monogamous).
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  • 13
    The worst part was when the bill arrived, Sharon announced it should be 'together' and slid me the check. I told her she can't be serious, and we got into a bit of an argument. I ended it by putting my amount down in cash and walked out, leaving them to figure out the rest of the bill. The next days after that, Sharon kept
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  • 14
    calling me 'toxic' and 'fragile', but every time I even pushed at it, she would give an apology and promised she was just 'stressed at work'.
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    It's nuts, we haven't even planned the wedding yet. The worst part was this Monday, when at work, I got a Nest Doorbell alert, checked and saw Sharon and one of her six new friends arriving at my place, going in, and exiting with my golf clubs. This set was a gift from my father, and it cost a pretty penny too, so Sharon
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  • 16
    lending it out without my permission got me . | immediately called Sharon and told her and her friend to return the clubs.
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  • 17
    Sharon tried to gaslight me with "But you promised to lend the clubs to her boyfriend, remember?" I told her the clubs cost would move it into a serious crime, and her and her friend had an hour to return them or the cops would be called. Sharon kept insisted she got my permission and I told her to cut the Well, not 45 minutes
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  • 18
    later I got another notification of Sharon and her friend coming back with the clubs and going inside, leaving them, Sharon's friend flipping off the Nest doorbell on the way out.
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  • 19
    I got home and saw Sharon's friend literally just threw the clubs and back on the living room floor. Sharon tried to talk to me about my 'toxicity' again, and I told her again to cut the I said if I knew this was how she was, I would have never proposed. That seemed to freak her out and she again insisted that she was
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    'stressed from work', but I wasn't buying it anymore.
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  • 21
    I told her to return the ring and her key, and we would talk about our relationship this weekend. She cried and begged me not to cancel the engagement, and insisted that it was just stress. I told her again we will talk about it this weekend. She finally relented. I had my house re-keyed anyways after she left, just to be safe.
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  • 22
    Sharon has been texting me constant messages of love and apologies for getting swept up, and insisted she was only wanting to show me off to her close friends.
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  • 23
    I don't know, I'm just not buying it. The same 'close friends' have been sending me texts daily, calling me 'toxic' and 'fragile' again, saying they knew I wasn't 'man enough' for Sharon or 'secure enough' to share her with friends.
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  • 24
    A few of my friends that knew Sharon the entire two years we were dating were surprised and can't believe she turned Hyde this quick, and that there must be something missing, or that I am leaving something out. They say I must have said something to trigger her friends to act like this, and I had to have been the AH somewhere along the process.
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  • 25
    I dunno, it's a lot to take from all directions right now.
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  • 26
    perpetuallyxhausted ⚫ 3d ago NTA you said you had met 2 of her friends, Michelle and Octavia, previously. Have they had anything to say about this flipped behaviour or the 6 strangers that materialised?
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  • 27
    Away-Understandi... 3d ago 2 years and she didn't introduce you to these "friends"? She knows how terrible they are and how terrible she is with them. She put on quite a show to get the ring and now that she thought she had you locked down, she can show her true. colors.
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