‘You lied to me’: Woman Divorces Husband After He Claims He Wants Kids, He Finds Out Years Later She’s Pregnant

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    r/AITAH ⚫ 15 hr. ago CowOdd870 Aita for being pregnant when the reason why my husband and I broke up was because I didn't want children?
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    My ex husband and I were. together from the time we were 15-35. The last couple of years were not happy and the reason was because he had a change of heart about kids. When we met we were kids and never talked about children but then we were mid 20's and both realized we actually didn't want children. Our
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    marriage was beautiful and when it got bad at the end we chose to end it before we started hating each other and ruining all of the good memories. Only when he moved out did I realize that we actually hadn't been in love for a while and this in itself was heartbreaking. I never knew how heartbreaking it is to fall out of
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    love with someone who was a part of your life. big
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    Within a year he had met a woman and she was pregnant. He is married now with two children. He seems happy and I have spent some time every now and then looking up his life online, and while neither he nor his partner are avid social media users, he seems very happy. When I saw
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    him holding his children or playing with them, I felt immense loneliness, even if I still have my family and friends. Not only him. My siblings around me, my best friends, everyone was having children and it made me feel more and more lonely. All the people I know have priorities now that aren't "us" siblings or friends
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    anymore. I felt terrible loneliness all the time.
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    I met my fiancé 3 years ago. I love him very deeply and I am very happy with him. I told him that I wanted a baby and he was very happy about it. Now I am 7 months pregnant (33 weeks). My ex husband has heard about it and he is very upset about it. He wants to meet me to talk and his
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    sister told me that. He is angry that I lied to him. But I swear I didn't lie. I just changed. Our last period together changed me and so are the years after the divorce. Seeing everyone happy around me and I am totally lonely. Even my divorced friends had their children to love and care about and seemed content. I never
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    meant to hurt him. I don't even understand why he is hurt either because he seems to be very happy and his sister told me that he is
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    BlueGreen_1956 • 14h ago • Maybe NTA BUT I am not sure being lonely is a good reason for having a child.
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    NickelPickle2018 • 12h ago • Please seek individual counseling. Having kids. because everyone else around has them is a big mistake. People like you like the idea of kids but don't want to parent. You're not being fair to yourself or this
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    unborn child. You have bigger problems than worrying about what your ex thinks of you.
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    shammy_dammy • 14h ago • You had a kid because people around you have kids. :/
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    L • • 10h ago Edited 10h ago • I'd say you sound very immature, just because it sounds like you wanted a kid because everyone else is having one. I hope that you don't end up resenting your kid later on because you realized that you actually
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    didn't want a kid, but you had one because you were just lonely or felt left out.
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    Effective While... • 15h ago YTA for following each other, say good bye, let go move on.
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    judgingA-holes • 14h ago. YTA - For your reasoning behind deciding to have a kid is because your lonely and "even my divorced friends had their kids to love so they seemed content". 1) children aren't companion support animals that are
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    here so that you have someone to love on when you are feeling lonely and (2) they definitely will pull away from you at some point. Which is why you should have maybe looked into therapy instead of jumping into having a baby to cure your loneliness. You
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    didn't want a kid until were divorced and you felt you had noone.
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    Technicolor_Re... 11h ago • Being lonely is a pretty reason to have a kid.
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    CarlosHeadroom • 12h ago • YTA don't have kids just - because you feel lonely.

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