Parents Demand Teenager Carpool Her Siblings to School Everyday, She Refuses and Takes Her Bike Instead, They Revoke Car Privileges

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    r/AITAH⚫ 16 hr. ago Icy-Bag-9706 AITAH for riding my bike instead of driving my younger siblings to school unless I'm paid?
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    I got my license this summer while I was with my dad. So I was really excited to drive places when I got back to my mom's. My mom and stepdad let me use their spare car a couple times. Then said I could only continue using it if I drove my younger siblings to school, picked them up after school, and paid for gas. I said
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    okay. They kind of laughed about it and I didn't get why. Now I realize it's because they were taking advantage of me.
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    Driving my younger siblings to school sucks because they're all difficult to deal with in the morning. I also have to deal with insane traffic at the drop off area at the elementary school and then again at the middle school and then I still have to find parking at my school. With all that I actually have to leave home earlier than
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    when I rode my bike to school or even when I walked. Then after school I don't get to do anything with my friends because I have to immediately pick them up and deal with the traffic by their schools again.
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    Then I also have to pay for gas. So it feels like I'm just working on the weekend for money to drive my younger sibling instead of money for stuff I want. Even when I get to drive the car to go somewhere I want to it just doesn't feel worth it when I could ride my bike.
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    So I decided I didn't want to continue driving their car anymore and would go back the riding my bike to school. It's free and it's so much easier. I can get around traffic and I can easily lock my bike up on the bike rack instead of spending time looking for parking.
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    My mom and step dad aren't happy because they said I'm breaking the deal and they already rearranged their schedules. The deal was specifically if I "want to continue using their car" then I have to drive them. I don't want to continue using their car. So that's it.
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    They still were mad so I offered to make a new deal for them to pay me for my time to drive them plus gas. They said no because it would be too expensive since it would be almost $100 a week and they can't afford that, but I don't want to even do it in the first place. The money idea is just a compromise.
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    BabyLlamaGirl • 16h ago • NTA. They were taking advantage of you. Don't let them use you. Stand your ground.
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    • No-Personality... 16h ago • Nta They offered you a job you need to pay to do, and get no perks from. That's terrible deal.
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    Martha T001 15h ago • NTA I can see you paying for gas for your own use of the car. I can see taking and picking up your siblings for use of the car. No way is it right for you to pay for the gas involved in transporting your siblings.
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    Flumoaxed 15h ago • NTA They were completely using you and making you pay for the "privlege" of being used.
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    PassComprehe... 15h ago. NTA- The deal mom and SD came up for you had no real benefit for you, lots of benefits for them. They had already changed their schedules in anticipation of you taking over drop off/pick up duties which are
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    truly a pain. They're just mad they have to change the schedules back, lose some chill time, and have to deal with your siblings. Besides, what's going to happen when you go away to uni? They will be back in this situation all over again.
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    YouSayWotNow • 15h ago • Ha, they aren't happy because they know they were taking advantage of you and now they're going to have to hustle and do it themselves! NTA
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    VegetableBusin... • 13h ago. Good for you for figuring out out and standing up for yourself! You don't state your age but guessing 16, so time to get a job and ask your dad to hold. your money so you can buy
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    a used car. That way your mom and step will have no say in your car usage.
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    Knittingfairy09... 12h ago • ΝΤΑ You understand that you can't use their car if you don't drive the kids and you are fine with that. They should have realized this was a possibility.
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    AlpineLad1965 • 13h ago • While I can see the driving of the siblings to school, there's no way you should be 1. Responsible for paying for the gas. 2. Have to pick them up, because of after-school sports and other
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    activities. I had to drive my two younger sisters to school even when I bought my own car. I live in a small town, and the schools were only a few blocks apart. I think I was on time for my first period twice during my
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    senior year because my sisters were perpetually late, and my mom didn't make them hurry.

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