Man Owes $65,000+ to Ex-wife in Child Support, She Laughs at Him When His Current Wife Divorces Him Over the Money Loses: ‘Tell them to stop taking the support!’

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    r/AITAH • 10 hr. ago Inevitable_Bill4180 AITAH for laughing at my ex when he asked me to forgive his back child support?
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    My ex (M62, now) and I (F64, now) got divorced with one infant child in 1987. His support until 1992 was $50/month. He never paid this. He never worked for a pay check, only for cash.
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    In 1992 I went to increase his support to be what he would pay if he earned federal minimum wage. He never paid. Never saw my daughter after she turned 7 in 1993, no cards, calls, nothing. Which is good and left our family to be a family!
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    Fast forward to 2004, my daughter is now 18 yo. I start to receive small child support deposits of $64/week. I am shocked and dismayed but happy. A few weeks later I get a call from my ex, Shannon, saying "isn't she 18 now? Tell them to stop taking the support.". I laughed and said no, you will
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    always owe the back amount, plus interest. I can't stop it. So he quits working.
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    Then no word from him for years. Comes to 2021 I get a call from Shannon. Surprised by this I ask why the h I he wants. He wants me to fill out a form to FORGIVE his past support of $65,000+. He SWORE that he would then pay me directly $300/mo until the balance is paid, 217 months. Now remember he's been under a court order to pay me child
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    support since Sept 1987 and has paid nothing. When it was taken from his pay, rather than work, he chose to quit his job.
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    I found out through some online research that this was about the time that the AG of TX, where Shannon lived with his wife, had filed a lien against Shannon for the back child support amount. I had no clue this was done! So Shannon's wife doesn't want him to be on their single wide deed because of the lien, so she divorces him.
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    This is why he wants me to forgive his child support, he was losing his sugar momma!! He's called three times since then and just when I stop laughing I get another call from him.
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    Am I the a hle for laughing at him, in his old age, for not letting him off the hook for this $65,000+ in back child support that I KNOW I will never see a dime of?
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    CozyCupcake25 • 10h ago • No, he seems to need to pay up, and having a nice chuckle is merely a bonus.
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    DinoAnkylosaurus • 9h ago • I hate deadbeat dads who work to game the system. I once worked in the office for a company with a high turnover, and realized some guys knew the system so well, and how long it took to get a new support order to the employer, and they'd
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    quit a week before it would take effect. A month later they'd get rehired and it was rinse and repeat over and over.
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    So I started entering orders for people who'd been terminated but had been hired at least twice, and set up an alert of anyone with an order was re-hired. And I'd get on the phone with the CS office for that state (barring a couple that were a PITA) and let them know
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    he'd been re-hired and could they fax in a current order? Sometime I'd have active orders two or three days after they were hired. Surprise, buddy!
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    svkatt 10h ago • ΝΤΑ My ex complained that after the wage garnishment (I had been supporting my daughter by myself for 10 years by then), that he didn't even have enough money to buy cologne... I'm like, I
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    guess you're just going to have to stink then!!! I got a few of his tax returns once he decided to get a real job. You keep on laughing every time he calls. I'll be laughing with you
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    darkenough812 • 10h ago • NTA! This is hilarious and that's what he gets for being a deadbeat loser. Karma!!
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    grayblue_grrl 9h ago • NTA. My ex did pretty much the same. He ended up getting injured at work and was able to collect disability.
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    Our youngest was 18 and had just joined the military. The government had his child support coming off of that disability and I collected for a number of years. It paid for daycare for our granddaughter.
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    Since he had lied to everyone that he paid his child support all along, they wondered why I could get it. after the youngest was 18. He told them I was just greedy. You aren't laughing alone.

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