'Loudly ask the guest why she’s wearing white to someone else’s wedding': 17-year-old woman requests petty revenge advice for her sister's wedding guest

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    AITAH if I "accidentally" trip and spill wine all over this girl who is wearing white to my sister's wedding?
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    Ok this is happening right now. I'm in the wedding venue watching my sister get married. So expect updates maybe?? I F(17) am at my sister's wedding right now (I'm so happy for her!). Here's the problem, this random guest (who I don't know) is wearing the very beautiful very obvious wedding gown to what's supposed to be my sister's special day.
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    Back when I was younger and she was a teen she told me that if she got married and someone wore white to my wedding she wanted me to spill a gallon of syrup and glitter on her as payback. Now the only unfortunate part is that I have no access to syrup or or glitter. You might be thinking wine because that's the most commonly used weapon in these situations but they won't let me near the alc ol table. The only drinks available to the 5 children
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    hear is sprite, orange juice, and water (great selection guys...). Now I would do orange juice but there is very little left and my cousin would murder me. So what to do? I'm pretty sure everyone here has noticed the white dress and is a tad confused by it. My whole family and the grooms side aren't big tradition followers so you basically could wear anything to this wedding and not be directly called out.
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    However, this seems very deliberate and I know my sister has noticed it because how the h I would you not?! So AITAH? Honestly just tell me what to do cuz idk. I might go talk to her; I love talking to crazy people! (Also don't come at me for making an AITAH post about something so stupid cuz I find this hilarious).
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    UPDATE: So I want to make it clear that I am very much a gentle giant and would never do something so bold. Me and my cousin thought this would be pretty funny to see what other people thought. Now I finally spoke to my sister and her husband. My sister actually didn't notice her and got pretty upset when I pointed it out (I feel kind of bad about that). I asked her if she knew the person to which she said no then ask her husband
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    if he did and he said it was his cousin's plus one and gf. I asked her if she wanted me to do anything about it and she told me yes but also to not make a big scene out of it. So one things I'm pretty good at is info-fishing! I sidled my way up to the guest with my little cousin (not the same cousin as before) and started some small talk with the guests around her which eventually lead to her being brought into the conversation.
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    Now my little cousin is blunt and childish (which is why I brought his amazing self along) and asks why she has the white dress on (as planned). She stutters a little then mumbles something about her being color blind. Ok! Pause. What? I've heard of color blindness where you can't see anything but black or white and if ima be honest I kind of just walked away after that. Like, how do I respond to that? cuz if she's actually color blind and thought
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    the dress was a light shade of some color or other than I'm the AH and she doesn't deserve me about it, yk? Then again, if she's lying that's freaking crazy. I basically just told my sister that and gave me the most ?' Face she could manage. She decided not to worry about it and just have a happy wedding! I'm happy for her and honestly just happy she's such a great person and so much better than me lol.
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    UPDATE 2: So me an my cousin have decided that we were the AH and we accept it. It would have been worse if we acted on the joke however. The woman has left and her Bf is no where to be seen so all is well. Me and my cousin brought the post up to my sister (who was a bit tipsy so I'll ask again later) and asked if we should delete since it was unkind of us to do it at her wedding. She laughed at us after reading the post (and a few comments) and
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    told us we were fine and also hilarious. I'm glad my sister is happy and when my sister is happy I'm happy! Let's just celebrate that my sister got married!!! WOOOO GO SISTER!!! Sure I'm just a 17 y/o and acting childish but you bet your I'll live out my last year of that childhood acting like the biggest toddler of all. I love you sis
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    [deleted] What you're suggesting doing is petty and immature. I understand wanting to have your sisters back. I do get it. But your going to disrupt your sisters big day if you do this. I really doubt she's going to thank you for that. Also, you said your sister told you she would do that when she was a teen.
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    wakingdreaml... Ask your sister if she approved this. If not, loudly ask the guest why she's wearing white to someone else's wedding. BUT CHECK WITH YOUR SISTER FIRST. NTA.
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    DenseDimensi... Just leave your sister might be having a lovely day and just not bothered. When I was getting married someone could have worn the most elaborate dress in the world I just wouldn't have even noticed.
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    Competitive-... Jesus Christ do not cause a big scene at your sisters wedding. Everybody already knows this chick is an ah le and are sh talking her. I presume everyone there knows who's getting married and who the bride is. All this woman has done has made herself look bad. Give her enough rope to hang herself.
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    Brides and friends of brides: Have a section of large pashminas, scarves and Large statement jewelery pieces. Rather than violently spill wine or cause drama, the designated person will offer the person in white an opportunity to cover it or
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    change the look. I personally love saying, "I'm sure you didn't mean to embarrass yourself, but only the bride wears white today."
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    Ashfield83 Go enjoy the friggin wedding and get off AITAH!
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    Forsaken-Tige... Ignoring the social issue of it, if it's expensive and you ruin it, i'd expect they chase you for the money. One AH does not excuse another
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    theworldisonfi... Do not do anything until you speak to your sister. Ask her what the deal is, who the person is, and if she is bothered by the dress. NTA for wanting to stick up for your sister, but get more info before you decide to do anything.
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    DueMountain2... Don't do it. You're making a scene. It's also assault and battery if someone finds this post and can prove your identity.
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    SleepwalkerWei Hard to say as it depends on your sister's wishes and who this woman is to her, you may be royally up if you do this and you just don't realise. If I were you, I would talk to your sister and say you either want to speak to this woman or potentially spill wine on her and see what she says.
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    IMO before wine, I would ask her why she's wearing a wedding dress to another woman's wedding. If she's r de about it, take it from there. First though, speak to your sister if you're able to.
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    KurosakiOnepi... Why would you want to cause a scene on you sister's wedding day over something she said when y'all were kids
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    Do you think maybe now that she's older and more mature she might have changed her mind about doing something like this?
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