Man Sues Karen Neighbor After Her Son Trespasses Onto His Property, Destroying Koi Fish Pond, She Refuses to Take Accountability: 'Kids will be kids'

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    r/AITAH u/DMLives .7h AITA for suing my neighbor after their kid trespassed and fell into my koi pond?
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    I (22M) have a koi pond in my backyard. It's not just any koi pond-it's a full-blown, professionally designed Japanese garden with a bridge, waterfalls, and koi that cost more than my car (I'm talking $1,000 for a single fish). Maintaining this pond is my pride and joy. I've put years into this hobby, and my yard is securely fenced with "No Trespassing" signs everywhere.
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    Enter my neighbor, "Karen" (fake name, but fitting). Karen has a son, let's call him Timmy (8M), who is notorious for wandering into other people's yards uninvited. I've talked to Karen multiple times about this, but she just brushes it off with, "Kids will be kids."
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    Last week, while I was out running errands, I got a frantic call from Karen. Apparently, Timmy climbed over my fence to "feed the fish" (even though I have explicitly told him to stay out). In doing so, he slipped, fell into the pond, and destroyed part of my carefully maintained ecosystem. Several of my prized koi di d due to stress, and the filtration system was damaged because of the debris Timmy kicked in.
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    Luckily, Timmy wasn't seriously hurt-just a few scrapes-but Karen has been demanding I pay for his medical bills. She claims my pond is an "attractive nuisance" and that I should've had a cover or something to prevent kids from falling in. I argued that (1) it's a private, fenced property, and (2) her son had no business being there in the first place.
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    When I refused to pay, Karen lost it and started badmouthing me to the whole neighborhood, calling. me "heartless" and a "terrible person." I've since filed a lawsuit against her for the cost of the koi, the damage to my filtration system, and repairs to my pond-over $5,000 in total.
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    Some of my friends think I'm taking it too far, saying, "He's just a kid." But others agree that Karen should've been watching him better. So, Reddit, AITA for suing my neighbor after her kid trespassed and destroyed my koi pond? ✩ 13.6k 2,427 1
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    TarzanKitty 7h NTA Mom needs to supervise her son better. ... Reply 10.7k
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    SkyLightk23 .7h Poor fishes di d of shock. Why would anyone think that's OK or not a big deal. And the kid could have di d too if it was a pool or something.
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    She doesn't want to take care of the kid. She doesn't want to control him or anything. When will she stop? She is right. Hee is just a kid, but she is not. The issue is not the kid is the mother. Saying he is just a kid, It is just a deflection of her responsibility.
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    Renault935 • 6h Said it before and I'll say it again, "kids will be kids" means behavior issues are to be expected and dealt with, not that misbehaving is to be accepted and uncorrected. ... 1.2k
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    HarperLibraEclipse ⚫ 7h You have a right to protect your property and enjoy your hobby in peace. It's crucial to consult with a lawyer specializing in property law and personal injury. They can provide advice tailored to your specific circumstances and jurisdiction. 1.1k
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    AvaTaurus Glow ⚫ 7h • Yep. Timmy trespassed on your private property despite clear warnings and a fence. His actions, not yours, led to the incident. ... 149
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    Krescentia 7h • NTA. Not at all. You received damages on your private property due to a trespasser. Your koi pond is gated behind fencing, that is "something preventing kids from falling in." Absolutely hold this person accountable (the mother). She seems very spoiled/entitled and needs a reality check. Reply 2.7k
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    Clean Factor9673 .7h Don't forget the no trespassing signs ... ← 712
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    iamuniversol • 7h NTA. She's an irresponsible parent and should not be allowing her 8 year old to trespass into others yards with supervision. You should absolutely be suing her for the damages to your property. She's insane to demand you pay for her son's medical bills, it was her duty to protect her child. ← Reply 1.2k
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    enchylatta 7h • NTA - I'd sue her for damages and add on emtional damages because of the loss of your emotional support fish. ... Reply 11.3k ♡
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    MirabellaSky • 7h NTA. "Kids will be kids" doesn't excuse causing thousands of dollars in damages. It's important to set consequences early on, or Timmy might think this behavior can slide anywhere. Reply 231
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    isabellaapink • 6h Absolutely agree. NTA. Allowing "kids will be kids" to justify destructive behavior only teaches them there are no real consequences for their actions. Holding Timmy accountable now is crucial to help him learn responsibility and respect for others' property. If he doesn't face consequences early on, it could lead to even bigger issues down the road. 12
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    Glittering Dot1485 • 6h NTA wholeheartedly. You warned her and it is private property. I would invest in a camera for your backyard. I wouldn't trust your neighbor while I was away anymore. ... Reply ↑ 3 ♡ ☑
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    SafeWord9999 6h Absolutely sue her. She started this level of aggression. Reply ↑ 3 ↓
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    Old-Aardvark-9446 • 5h NTA, it doesn't matter. No trespassing, fenced in, sounds like you went out of your way to secure your And in would have gone property. that kid is a after her for more than 5k that's for sure ← Reply 4

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