Entitled cheating girlfriend demands that her ex keeps bankrolling her lifestyle after she gets caught: ''I owe her nothing'

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
Nov 29, 2024 2:00 PM EST

You can't have it both ways, lady! You can't cheat on your partner and then expect to maintain the life you had before you got caught. Thankfully, this was not a situation where young kids and disputed property were involved, so the separation was easy to make for the Redditor… but not for his now ex-girlfriend.

She expected that the original poster (OP) would have the so-called "decency" to keep bankrolling her and her new beau's lifestyle while they get on their feet. As OP makes clear in his recounting of the story, it is most certainly not his fault that his ex chose to cheat with an unemployed dude who couldn't possibly support her. She probably should have considered that before she went ahead and acted on her fantasies. Now, she's grasping at straws to get whatever money she can still get from this guy, even going so far as contacting his place of work as well as his extended family members. 

Keep scrolling below for the full story and for the best reactions from folks in the comments section. For more stories like this, check out this post about a spouse who refused to buy their wife a plane ticket.

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    "I kicked her out and kept my dogs."
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    Ex so entitled she thinks I should be paying bills for her and the guy she cheated with.
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    Found out my girlfriend of 11 years was cheating me with an unemployed dude, of all people. I'm not rich but I provided her a good lifestyle. Paid most of her bills. Provided a nice place. Nails
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    and hair done regularly. Dates every weekend. Couple vacations a year. She got used to that lifestyle and wanted to keep living it despite cheating with a broke dude. She didn't admit to
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    the cheating. I caught on to it. Once it was clear I was done with her, the entitlement really started to show.
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    She said because I had family in the area and she didn't, I should move out but continue paying the bills to give her and the new guy a chance to get on their feet. She
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    also insisted on keeping my dogs, told me I could only see my own dogs if I asked the new guy. But since they didn't have any money, I needed to continue paying for food and vet bills. Instead, I kicked her out and kept my dogs.
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    At that point she was angry. And still felt entitled to my income. After I kicked her out of my place she claimed she was forced to quit her job because I forced her
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    to relocate. And then she tried to sue me for lost wages. Which didn't work out in her favor. You'd think she'd stop at this point but she didn't. She contacted my work and threatened to sue them,
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    stating "your employees actions cost me everything" and tried to insist they "settle outside of court with her for $100,000 (she didn't make that much money). Instead my work filed harassment charges against her.
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    You'd think she'd stop at that point. But she didn't. She started messaging every family member of mine that she could find. Told
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    them I cost her everything out of spite just because she moved on with someone else, and that the least they could do is send her money to help her get a place
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    and pay rent. When that didn't work, she went online and begged for people to send money to her cash app to help her with a place to live, and claimed it was a c v[ dr situation. I
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    don't understand how she doesn't understand that any financial support I gave her would end if she cheated on me. We weren't married. We don't have kids. I've supported her for years.
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    I owe her nothing. I really don't owe it to her to help her and her new relationship get on their feet and establish themselves. Which seems to come as a shock to her.
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    floofienewfie · 11h ago That woman is unhinged. Hope OP has her permanently blocked everywhere.
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    lonster1961 · 11h ago • Keep records and recordings of every thing. I wouldn't be surprised if she started trying to get the law involved by making ab allegations
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    AdAccomplish... 11h ago • It was a fun and amusing story until she claimed DV. You need to sue her for slander or defamation, even if only asking for a token judgement of $1, to shut that stuff down
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    Atypical Ashley 11h ago. • • Thank god you didn't marry her
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    Tundra-Queen... 11h ago. Wow, that is some high level entitlement. Glad you escaped.
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