Woman Uninvites 5-year-old Nieces From Wedding When She Insists They’re Flower Girls With Her Chihuahua, Despite Them Being Scared of the Dog, She Calls Brother Selfish When He Refuses to Allow Them Near the Pooch

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    Now, she's told me that if the girls won't participate with Rambo then they can't come to the wedding at all. She says it's her day, and promises that Rambo will be nice and that it will be so cute to see the girls dressed up with a "little man" in a tuxedo.
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    r/AITAH ⚫16 hr. ago Low_Savings6737 : AITA for Refusing to Let My Twin Daughters Walk Down the Aisle with My Sister's Hyper Chihuahua?
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    My sister is getting married over MLK weekend, and she's asked my 5-year-old twin daughters to be part of the wedding as flower girls. I was excited and so were the girls (she stupidly asked the girls before asking me and my wife).
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    After the girls had gone to sleep, she casually mentions that the girls would be walking down the aisle with Rambo, her fur baby (Chihuahua). She said that she already got a little tuxedo for Rambo to wear.
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    Here's the issue: my girls are terrified of Rambo. He's hyper and is always barking at them has even snapped a few times (not biting, but enough to scare them). One of the twins actually peed in her pants once when Rambo "was just trying to say hello."
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    I tried to explain this to my sister, but she insists that Rambo is the most important part of her special day.
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    Now, she's told me that if the girls won't participate with Rambo then they can't come to the wedding at all. She says it's her day, and promises that Rambo will be nice and that it will be so cute to see the girls dressed up with a "little man" in a tuxedo.
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    I think this is unfair and unreasonable. My girls are 5, scared of Rambo, and shouldn't have to do something that terrifies them. But she's calling me unsupportive and claims I'm being selfish for not helping her "vision" come to life.
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    AITA for refusing to let my daughters walk down the aisle with Rambo?
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    Thistime232 • 16h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA. And your sister isn't really thinking this through, when her twin 5 year old nieces run away from the dog screaming in terror during the ceremony, it won't be "cute."
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    Educational_Ga... • 16h ago • Top 1% Commenter Don't worry, if this is real and the descriptions accurate, I foresee your sister will end up divorced either way. She sounds emotionally 13.
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    beachbum229 • 16h ago • NTA, got a bridezilla here. Your kids safety is way more important than her wedding. End of story.
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    If she won't let your kids go unless they are made unsafe then you can all just stay home and save money. I guarentee if you go and one of your kids gets bit or pees their pants or something you will wish you were home having a family game night instead.
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    • MuffPiece 16h ago • Why does she even want them to walk down the aisle with the dog if the girls are afraid of him? Kids are already fairly unpredictable, I don't understand why the bride would be willing to add a hyper dog to the mix.
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    You're definitely NTA. Maybe suggest Rambo be walked down the aisle by someone else. The whole situation sounds like a recipe for disaster.
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    pixie-ann • 16h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA I would pull the whole family out of the wedding if this is the stupid yappy snappy hill your sister has chosen to di on. Take the kids somewhere fun and keep their minds off their unbelievably selfish aunt.
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    dognapperthro... • 16h ago • NTA. Its a lot to ask in general, but then for her to completely UNINVITE THEM because they're scared of the dog is such a thing to do. She's trying to punish you and them for not bending to her will. Also laughing my a off at her
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    promising he will behave like its a human child she can ask to be nice lmao. Hope the dog on the officiant or something. I'd be petty and not go at all now since she's shown she only wants her nieces there either as props for her "perfect" day, or not at all.
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    Similar-Traffic7... • 16h ago NTA Top 1% Commenter Don't go to the wedding. If she cares more about her dog than her nieces, that is on her.
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    Also, what is up with your sister asking your daughters before asking you? That is so DISRESPECTFUL and it would me off.
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    Juicy TightBabe • 16h ago • You're not an a h le for protecting your daughters' comfort and safety.

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