Man Kicks Girlfriend Out of Apartment After Catching Her Cheating, Refuses to Continue Paying her Expenses, Leading to Her Financial Turmoil and Debt

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    she showed up to the house trying to get in, she couldn't. My friends started calling me. I told them I was fine, but that I would not see or speak to her under any circumstances. I told them to ask her to leave. Eventually she did.
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    r/AITAH Gullible Spite_1108 AITA for how I handled my ex cheating?
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    I (29M) was engaged to my ex (26F). She is in grad school working on a Masters. We had a shared apartment, but in June, I got a great job about two
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    hours away from her school in my hometown. I have since bought a house and she was supposed to move in at the beginning of January. The
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    lease in the apartment we used to share ends at the end of this month. In September, I started to notice her
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    being distant with me. I thought nothing of it. There was a new guy in the program she started mentioning, I thought nothing of it. Well, a couple of
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    weeks before Thanksgiving I got pretty irrefutable proof she was cheating with this guy.
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    I was more angry than I can put into words. Originally, she was planning on coming to see me the weekend before
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    Thanksgiving before she went home for the week. I made up some excuses for why she couldn't come, so I did not see her.
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    While she was gone for Thanksgiving, I took what stuff I had of hers at the house, and took it to the apartment. I wrote a detailed letter about the
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    cheating, how I felt, and letting her know I was breaking up with her. I also wrote her a check for my part of the rent for December, but told her she
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    needs to make arrangements for the other things. I paid her car insurance, health insurance, and cell phone each month. I also went about changing
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    passwords, locks, passcodes, etc., so she could not access anything of mine. She got back to the apartment on
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    November 30th and saw the letter. She lost it. She called repeatedly, I did not answer. In the early morning hours of December 1st, she showed up to the
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    house trying to get in, she couldn't. My friends started calling me. I told them I was fine, but that I would not see or
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    speak to her under any circumstances. I told them to ask her to leave. Eventually she did.
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    I still have not spoken to her and don't plan to ever. Some of my friends are saying I am an AH. Apparently her account is overdrawn because I usually
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    put money in her account at the beginning of the month to cover her bills, but since I didn't, money came out and caused her to have a negative
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    balance. She has absolutely nowhere to stay once the lease ends at the end of the month. And she just wants to talk
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    to me for closure. I refuse. They ask if I could at least give her some money to get her account balance back up, but I refuse. AITA?
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    throwitaway3857 NTA. You already did more than enough paying anything other than the rent.
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    Aj_Nova0501 NTA I can't believe your friends are more concerned about her than you, ! You handled this situation very well and I hope you're okay.

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