Woman Calls Boyfriend Petty After He ‘Forgets’ to Leave Her Food From His Dinner, Despite Her Never Cooking for Him, Causing Relationship Debate About Respect

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    A week ago I decided to treat her the same way she treats me so I only made lunch for myself, and when she came back from the gym she asked me about her lunch and I said "I forgot", she immediately realized what this is about and called me "petty" and a "childish "I told her she is more deserving of those
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    . r/AITAH 10 hr. ago Playful-Wonder1045 AITA for being petty towards my girlfriend because she wouldn't make me dinner
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    I(m26) have been with my girlfriend (f24) for 2 years. She moved in with me 6 months ago when she graduated college, she applied for jobs but she is yet to get employed, so I have been paying for everything.
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    My work shift is from 4PM to 12AM, I eat dinner at 1PM which is usually my girlfriend's gym time so I cook lunch for my self and I leave her a plate on the counter. As for dinner she cooks for herself but rarely leaves a plate for me, when I ask her about it she gives a vague excuse, she forgot, there wasn't enough ingredients,
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    assumed I ate dinner at work(I don't have a dinner break).
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    A week ago I decided to treat her the same way she treats me so I only made lunch for myself, and when she came back from the gym she asked me about her lunch and I said "I forgot", she immediately realized what this is about and called me "petty" and a "childish a h_le" I told her she is more deserving of those
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    names, since moving in with me she hasn't paid for anything yet she couldn't do a simple request for me.
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    At the end of the argument I told her I will leave her a lunch plate only if she leaves me a dinner plate the night before, I don't care what excuse she has, she was still angry but she agreed. So AITA?
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    Sims Creator777 • 10h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA. She sounds like a freeloader. You cook for her, pay rent and fund her entire lifestyle. The least she could do is reciprocate once in a while by cooking for you too. I would reconsider this relationship because she
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    sounds like an entitled, ungrateful user.
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    Majestic_Daikon... • 9h ago • NTA - shes living off you and doesnt have the courtesy to leave you some of your own food? This isnt about negiociation as Rwm90 thinks, its basic manners.
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    Alarming_Reply... •9h ago. Top 1% Commenter Seems like it worked out. You told her what she can expect from you. She is still free to make her own choices.
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    NTA - you weren't being petty. You were giving her the same respect she gave you.
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    AlwaysConstipa... • 9h ago • NTA - I honestly don't understand why people are calling you an ah le for not setting up a talk about expectations for each other? Like hello? This guy is literally paying for everything. Rent, food, his girlfriend is basically living
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    the stay-at-home girlfriend lifestyle and yet he's supposed to "ask" for food? With the groceries he bought? In my opinion, it's basic human courtesy to think of the needs of someone doing so much for you, especially if she's already making her own
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    food. That's just straight up disrespectful. He shouldn't need to ask for something that should honestly be common sense. She's not thinking of his well-being at all.
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    AlternativeLie94... 9h ago. Top 1% Commenter NTA. Also she needs to get a job.
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    2npac 9h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA...had an ex like this. That's why being inconsiderate is one of my biggest red flags. I used to work 12 hr shifts while she worked part time or not at all and she never made anything for me unless |
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    specifically asked her. And even then, half the time, she'd say "I don't know how" 3. Also, when I'd go out with my friends to eat or something I'd bring her food or ask her if she wanted anything while I'm out. When she was out, she'd come home empty-handed and when I'd ask, she'd say,
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    "well you didn't tell me to get you anything" My point is, if they actually cared and thought about you, they'd feel bad for freeloading and at least make an extra effort somewhere else. But your GF is not only lazy and a freeloader, but very
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    inconsiderate as well. That doesn't bode well for your relationship in the future

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