16-year-old joins friend's family for Costa Rica vacation, her parents get billed without warning: 'You don't invite someone and then stick an invoice in the mail'

Gifts should not come at a price like this one. After all, the gift of a vacation is not the opportunity for a business venture. 

Clearly, this one family thought differently when they invited their kid's friend to a trip to Costa Rica and subsequently charged the friend's parents for a significant portion of the trip without warning after the fact. Perhaps if the other kid's parents knew that this was always going to be the plan before the vacation, they wouldn't have allowed their daughter to go to Costa Rica. Let this story serve as a friendly reminder that transparency across all parties is key, people!

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  • This teenager was invited by a friend in her class to join her family for a vacation to Costa Rica. Her parents allowed this and expected to offer the friend's family payment for some of the expenses during the trip. However, the communication was never set in stone. Following the vacation, the teenager's parents were unexpectedly billed for far more than they had anticipated.

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    "Daughter joined a friend on vacay. Now we get the bill"

    Ok so my daughter (16) went to Costa Rico with a friend and her parents & grandparents. I assumed they would only charge us for her food and activities like
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    zip lining. Nope. They are asking for a portion of her accommodations and car rental as well. Why on earth did I assume she was tagging along?
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    Because that's what we did for my other daughters friend two years ago. I would never dream of charging so much when I was
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    going anyway! We have the money so this ain't gonna break me. I just want to have a conversation.
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  • Several members of the community weighed in on this subject with their hot takes. Some folks felt that the parents should have communicated with the family of their daughter's friend to sort things out prior to the trip and are, at the very least, partially to blame for what went down. However, the vast majority of people seem to feel that the other family is largely in the wrong here and that the swift transactional nature of their invitation comes across as a bit tacky.

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    OkHistory3944. This is garbage. Parents in my friend group only expected you to have spending money if you were. invited along. I could see maybe expecting adult guests' charges to be split,
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    but we're literally talking about a kid here. You shouldn't invite someone along on your already planned vacation unless you plan to cover it.
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    Co... Pay it. Repeat your thanks for taking her and never allow her to do such a trip with 'not family' again. At
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    only 16, anything could have happened in a foreign country and the ask for payment for certain accommodations beyond
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    flight and even food says they were unprepared to host. Stay gracious but know that they've shown you who they are and you should believe them. Tacky!
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    djs1980 . You don't invite someone and then stick an invoice in the mail. This is a family holiday, not a business venture.
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    Tac... If this wasn't discussed before the trip was agreed on then you shouldnt have to pay
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    ScarletDarkstar How did you send your child to Coata Rica with a friend's family and not have the specifics detailed before it was agreed upon?
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    rong-rite The "hosts" should have specified ahead of time that the bill would be divided equally, just to avoid confusion. But the default is that she pays her own way, so this shouldn't be a surprise.
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    Big_Object_4949 This is what you call "buyer's remorse" lol they're regretting the money they spent, and now trying to recoup funds from you. If your child wasn't there, the rental/accommodations would be the same!
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    Illustrious-Pair-511 did they invite her? cus if so that's a sign they are TREATING her.. (they usually do that so the kids. have friends on the trip and parents can do stuff too)
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    and if she didn't give you some sort of bill ahead of time that you agreed on it sounds like "buyers remorse type of thing and want you to pay for part of their trip.. ugh i'm sorry that's so icky. and weird ..
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    QuietCauliflower9... What an awkward situation. So, the grandparents rented a car since they all couldn't fit into the parents' car anymore. Was your daughter
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    a last-minute invite or was she invited during the planning stages when the parents could have reserved a mini-van? If the grandparents had always
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    planned to rent their own vehicle to do their own excursions, your daughter's presence wasn't an added expense.
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    What was the accommodations situation? Did they book an adjoining room for the girls since she was bringing a friend? If both girls were in the same room as the parents, your daughter's presence wasn't an added expense.
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    Despite the conversation beforehand, you now have a bill which you say you'll pay. You're handling this situation with grace. I guess lesson learned is to text the parents beforehand and ask their expectations as to what you'll cover.
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    Most people would be as surprised as you were. I've taken my children's friends on vacation because I knew my children would have. more fun. I asked the other parent to cover their child's
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    food and spending while I covered the hotel and rental car. I brought those children along for our vacation memories, not to reduce the total cost of my vacation.
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