UPDATE: Bride refuses to change wedding menu for her short-term vegan SIL, so her SIL impersonates bride on the phone and attempts to revise wedding menu herself

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Lana DeGaetano • "Show me to me please."
Jan 18, 2025 9:00 PM EST

If you haven't read part one of this insane story, you can read that here.

Changing around an entire wedding menu for the sake of one person's VERY new diet seems a bit far-fetched, doesn't it? What's crazier is that person impersonating you on the phone and attempting to change the wedding menu with the caterer themselves. Yeah, this is not a made-up story. This is the entitled truth.

Weddings=expensive. Food=expensive. Wedding+food=VERY expensive. You get the gist. In part one of this story, the bride dealt with her future sister-in-law's entitlement after she proclaims she has been vegan for two weeks and intends on keeping it that way. The SIL's way of doing so is demanding the bride to change her wedding menu by adding an additional vegan dish for an extra $1.5k. The bride had already finalized the catering, so that was a no-go.

Well, this bride's SIL decides to call up the caterer on her own and impersonate the bride in an attempt to change the menu. Did I mention she tries to charge it to her brother's credit card? The worst part of it all: the bride's future MIL is on her daughter's side despite her entitlement. Somehow, the situation only gets messier from there. Scroll to read.

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  • Wedding Menu APPETIZER "When I confronted her, she looked a bit surprised that I found out, but not a single ounce of guilt." remini mushrooms, truffle demi-glace Or ven roasted halibut truffle potato purce DESSERT
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  • "AITA for Refusing to Cater to My Vegan SIL? PART TWO"

    Alright, buckle up, because Maggie just turned this into a full- blown soap opera. After our initial fallout, I thought things would di down, but nope—she's doubling down on her antics.
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  • 2 hours ago, I got a call from the caterer** Apparently, Maggie had contacted them pretending to be calling on my behalf and asked for a "menu revision." She had
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  • 2 hours ago, I got a call from the caterer*.* Apparently, Maggie had contacted them pretending to be calling on my behalf and asked for a "menu revision." She had
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  • requested for them them to add 5 new fully vegan dishes???? Obviously, I had been prepared for this but what I found most disgusting was her asking them to charge it to my
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  • fiance's card when they told her that it will cost another additional 1.5k to make the dishes and make sure its not contaminated by other non vegan dishes. Luckily, the caterer
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  • knew about the whole drama and immediately called me afterwards, filling me in on what just happened.
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  • While I was replying to some of yall's comments I was actually on my way to Maggie's house. When I confronted her, she looked a bit surprised that I found out, but not a single ounce of guilt. Instead, she said,
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  • "I was just trying to fix your mistake. If you're not going to take initiative to provide for your guests at least let me do it for you." I told her she crossed a line and that if she couldn't respect my choices, she didn't need to come to the wedding.
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  • Cue the meltdown. Maggie went on a tirade about how I was "alienating her" and "ruining the family dynamic" by excluding her. It didn't help that my MIL was there too, and completely on her side.
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  • She's now threatening to boycott the wedding entirely, which honestly might be a blessing at this point.
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  • My two cents? Let her disinvite herself from the wedding. I'm honestly surprised that the bride didn't take her off the guest list when her future SIL showed her true colors in the first part of the story. However, credit card fraud (which the SIL attempted to commit) is a serious crime. She shouldn't get away with her toxic behavior, but she has a mother who is riding on that entitled horse until the very end. The bride might find that her wedding will be just as special (if not more) if these two people don't attend the wedding.

  • But it doesn't end there. She posted her late new year dump right after i left and the caption is some obvious jab at me, and her
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  • friends, who have clearly only heard her side of the story, are flooding the comments with support and taking jabs at me.
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  • I called my fiance who was at work, close to tears and he is furious, wanting to cut ties with her altogether but seeing his anger, my MIL is intimidated is begging me to "make amends." I'm standing my
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  • ground, but the family group chat is a WAR ZONE right now. The whole extended family is just contributing with their useless opinions asking me to 's k it up' and 'just
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  • pay the extra 1.5k.' this whole thing just adds on to the list of Maggie's bulls ive had to deal with throughout the years. im tired.
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  • Madmatt... NTA. Maggie and anyone who supports her can stay the f home.
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  • McflyThrowaway01 Tell your MIL that the only one who needs to make amends is her daughter and herself for supporting her behavior. Also tell her that it's probably best if both she and SIL stay home so they can be miserable entitled together.
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  • Old_Cheek1076 It's great that your fiancé has your back, but why isn't he taking the lead with his own family? NTA, obv.
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  • DaphneGaze NTA. Maggie isn't just crossing boundaries, she's pole vaulting over them. You shouldn't have to fork over an extra $1.5k just because she doesn't know how to handle "no" like a grown-up. Stand your ground-you don't owe her free rein to dictate your wedding.
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  • jrm1102 NTA - Maggie is absolutely unhinged. Dear lord good luck with her, you'll need it.
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