25-year-old storms out of sister's wedding after being called "Miss Buzzkill" in the bride's speech: 'I felt humiliated in front of 200 guests'

There are lines that even close family members should never cross. Sure, if you're a comedian, you might be the kind of person to think that no joke should be off-limits (though many folks would disagree with that sentiment). Regardless of where you fall in that conversation, when it comes to family, there is a fine line between playful mockery and mean-spirited cheap shots. 

Furthermore, when it comes to large gatherings and events, it's always best to keep inside jokes private rather than address them in front of a crowd. Even if you may think you are just among loved ones, if the crowd size exceeds five people (in this case, it was a wedding of 200 guests), you might want to double-check with your family member before you make a joke about them in your speech. If you think you might not get the OK by checking, then that is probably a sign that you shouldn't make the joke at all. If you're unsure about it, wouldn't you rather run it by that family member in private before getting into worse trouble in public? 

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    "Now everyone's calling me selfish for making the wedding about me"

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  • Despite being the younger sibling in the family, this 25-year-old was often considered the most responsible person in their immediate circle (that includes her parentS). Her older sister, who clearly does this out of some sort of a defense mechanism, frequently refers to her younger sibling as “Mom Junior” and even more recently as the family “buzzkill.” The younger sister usually brushed off these “jokes,” but after a while, their mean-spirited nature started to eclipse any genuine attempt at being funny. By the time the older sister made a similar joke about the 25-year-old during her wedding speech, it was inevitable that things were going to hit the fan.

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    I (25F) have always been the "responsible one" in my family. I've helped raise my younger siblings, worked two jobs during college, and even financially supported my parents when they
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    hit a rough patch. My older sister "Rachel" (30F) has always been the family favorite-she's outgoing, funny, and everyone gravitates toward her. She got married last weekend, and things hit the fan.
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    For context, Rachel has always had this "playful" habit of roasting me at family gatherings. It started with harmless jabs, like calling me "Mom Junior" because
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    I'd remind everyone to take their meds or clean up after themselves. I laughed it off for years, but at some point, it turned mean-spirited. She
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    started calling me "Miss Buzzkill," saying I didn't know how to "let loose" because I preferred reading at home over clubbing.
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    Flash forward to the wedding: Rachel asked me to give a toast as her maid of honor. I thought it was a huge honor, so I worked hard on a heartfelt speech about
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    her finding love and the bond we share as sisters. But when it was Rachel's turn to speak, she gave this whole jokey speech about "the woman I've always looked up
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    to... as a reminder of what NOT to be." She then went on to "jokingly" compare me to a 1950s sitcom mom who "probably schedules fun time."
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    Everyone laughed, but I felt humiliated in front of 200 guests. Even my parents were cracking up. I wanted to keep it together, but after the speeches ended, I
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    quietly excused myself to the bathroom to cry. When I got back, the jokes hadn't stopped- people at my table were still making comments about me being a "buzzkill" while pouring drinks. I couldn't take it anymore. I grabbed my purse and left.
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    Since the wedding, Rachel has been blowing up my phone, calling me "dramatic" and saying I "ruined her big day" by storming off. My parents are siding with her, saying it was "just a joke"
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    and I "need to loosen up." I told them I'm done being the family punchline, and now everyone's calling me selfish for making the wedding about me. AITA?
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  • Several members of this online community weighed in with support for the younger sibling. Many told her that not only was she not at fault here, but also that she was more than justified in her decision to storm out of a wedding where she was the punchline of yet another unnecessary joke. Here's what these folks had to say!

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    CakePhool NTA Time to go NC with your family and see how it goes.
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    ForwardPlenty NTA. When someone disrespects you as a person, you remove yourself from their presence. You know this wasn't just a poking a little fun, this was downright making you the bot of an ongoing joke.
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    The fact that she would make her speech about you instead of the life in front of her and her new husband is despicable. She can find someone else to humiliate for her jollies from here on out.
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    victor_222_2. Nah, you're not the all. That's straight-up disrespectful, especially after you worked hard on a sweet speech for her. at
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    Honestly, I feel you—I had a buddy in college who always "joked" about me being the boring one in the group 'cause I didn't party as much. One day, he did it in front of a bunch of people,
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    and it cut deep. I ended up telling him off later, and he actually apologized (eventually).
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    You did the right thing by walking away instead of staying in a toxic vibe. Family or not, respect goes both ways. Hang in there, and don't let anyone guilt- trip you for standing up for yourself.
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