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AITAH for telling my boyfriend i don’t want his brother living with us
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What would you do if your sibling needed a place to stay? Would you let them crash with you? Would you put a timeline on it? Would you make them pay rent or get a job? Or would you just allow them to stay no questions asked. It's a difficult topic, and I'm not sure what I would do.
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It's really unfair that the boyfriend in the story isn't letting his girlfriend have a say. He's choosing his brother over her, and it must make her feel horrible. How could he insist the brother moves in just like that? She has every right to refuse to allow it.
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“You have no say in the decision”: 32-year-old man insists on moving in with his brother and girlfriend, girlfriend puts her foot down, but the brothers ignore her concerns
Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. Moving in with someone is a big step in a relationship. It means the couple is furthering themselves towards a long-term situation, that they're on their path to marriage, and that they're committing further to one another. Though it can be a beautiful and fun adventure to start building your life together with home responsibilities, it can also inflate problems that you didn't know existed. Before officially moving in, you don't really see that side of them. Sure, you can spend almost all your waking time and hours with them, but at the end of the day you still have your own spaces you can go back to. If you get into a fight, you don't have to spend the night together. If you want a girl's night, you can host without kicking your boyfriend out. And if you want an alone night, you needn't ask for it.
Moving in together causes you to see things differently. Maybe you don't have the same taste in decorations, maybe you disagree about the logistics of signing the contract. It could be that you just didn't realize how dirty they were before you actually sealed the deal. The story below is about a couple that is pressured with issues after living together.