27-year-old homeowner exposes her 26-year-old boyfriend's lies to his mom, breaks up and kicks him out when he drops blame on her: 'He literally told me he could forgive me, I was so shocked'

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  • "AITA for telling my boyfriends family that i bought our house, not him?"

    "I bought the house, payed the bills, Matt didn't even drop a dollar"
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  • AITA for telling my boyfriends family that i bought our house, not him?
  • this whole thing started last month or so. me (27f), and my boyfriend (26m) who i will call Matt for privacy sake, have been together for six years now. I'm the
  • indulge yourself in compliments while you can Matty boy

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  • main breadwinner, and that has always been a struggle in our relationship. i would say he is pretty insecure of earning less than me. About a year ago I had
  • finally saved up enough to purchase a house in the neighbourhood I really like. Up until then, me and matt had been living in his apartment, which is
  • cramped, and not located in a nice area. matt has never been too bothered about moving, he likes living in his apartment, and he doesn't mind living elsewhere, as long as doesn't have to pay
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  • more than half. knowing well i could easily purchase the whole house, and it was a bargain for the area, i bit the bullet and bought it from all my own
  • savings. when we moved in matt loved the place, and i thought everything was fine.
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  • now this is the reason i am posting on reddit. two days ago me and matt were over to his moms place for dinner.
  • conversation was going fine until the topic of our house was brought up. MIL mentioned how proud she was of matt for owning his own house at 26 which i was
  • confused about, but obviously didn't want to start anything at the dinner table. then matts sister chimed in about how much of an achievement it was. matt looked
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  • over at me, not saying anything. i'm not usually a petty or confrontational person, but something about the fact that i was the one who not only bought the house, but also payed
  • majority of the bills, and matt didn't even drop a dollar, stuck with me. so i decided to say something. i asked matt who really bought the house in front
  • of everyone. i know, it was a dik move but honestly i was so riled up by that stage. matt said nothing and then i announced to everyone that matt didn't even contribute to buying the house.
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  • immediately after saying that i packed up my stuff and went home. i have been texting with matts sister i will call Kate, who seems to be on my side.
  • matt is staying with his mum right now, so i have the house all to myself. he hasn't contacted me yet, and i don't know whether its worth breaking up over a lie like this. am i the ah le?
  • so, some stuff happened today. matt (fake name for boyfriend) came back to the house.
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  • i was assuming he was coming back to get his things and leave, but i was unfortunately very wrong. he literally told me he
  • could forgive me, and that he was moving back in (as if that was a good thing) i was so shocked, but he was . so as any sane person would do, i grabbed all his remaining stuff, gave it to him,
  • and told him to gtfo. he got really mad at that, and i was worried he would get aggressive, so i called Kate (SIL) for backup. she was really helpful, and drove matt home. as soon as i can, i'm
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  • changing locks. as for some of the comments, i pay the mortgage, and i don't even think matt knows what a mortgage is. i live in Canada, so i'm not sure if i
  • have legal rights to kick him out? he has stayed with me just over a year. I am trying to seek some lawyer advice. thank you all for your help, and i will try update if i can!

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