29-year-old man lends $1500 to "struggling" friend, biased friend group takes her side when she refuses to pay back the loan she spent on shopping and vacations: “It's just money, why make it into a fight?”

Have you ever lent a friend money, only to never see it back? If you simply bought them a drink on a night out when their card declined, it's not too big of a deal to just let it slide. You could also ask them to pay for you next time, or try to Venmo request them as a reminder. However, when larger sums of money are given away, it can put a major strain on the relationship until the sum is paid back. The rule of thumb here, honestly, is to never give away any amount of money that you're not comfortable getting back. Even if it's a trusted friend or family member, this should be your M.O.

In our story today, a 29-year-old man loans his friend over a grand. She said she'd pay him back, and she had told him that she was really struggling. However, after months go back with no progress on the loan, he starts to scrutinize her luxurious lifestyle. Scroll down for all the deets. 

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