Dad goes through 15-year-old son’s phone and finds out he has a PS5 at his mom’s house, he demands son bring it to his so his 6 stepsiblings can play too, son refuses: 'It’s going to get broken with 6 kids running around'

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    AITA for fighting with my dad because I won't share my PS5 at my mom's house with my stepsiblings at his?

    "You're rubbing it in their faces"
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    My mom bought me (15M) a PS5 for Christmas. My friends and I play it all the time when my mom's custody time comes around. My parents share custody of me so I'm at a different house every week. I never said anything about the PS5 at dad's house because I knew my
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    dad would expect me to share. He's got a huge stick up his a about me having so much more than my stepsiblings because mom only has me and she can afford stuff for me that my dad's wife can't afford for her kids. She has 6 kids who live with her all the time and they all have different dad's and none of
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    them have their dad around so she struggles to pay for stuff even now that she's married to dad.
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    This makes my dad go crazy about us being treated the same. But my mom doesn't owe those kids anything and I'm not going to make her pick up the slack for that crop. I'm not close to any of them either so why would I invite them to mom's house? They're not my friends.
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    My dad was going through my phone last week and saw me text my friends about the PS5 and plans we had to play games. Dad asked me why I never told him about the PS5 and why I didn't bring it to his house to share. He told me I need to do it next time I come over and
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    he can plan a fun day with me and my stepsiblings. I said no way and we fought about it. He accused me of rubbing the PS5 in their faces and letting them be treated bad. But I said nothing to them and the only reason they know about it or dad even is because he read those texts and got mad at me.
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    about it My dad gave mom and wanted her to punish me for fighting him and being selfish.
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    ProfessorDistinct835 NTA. But it's your mom who needs to intervene here and set your dad straight. Also 100% leave your PS5 at your mom's. It's going to get broken at your dad's house with 6 kids running around.
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    LavenderPearl Tea NTA. Why are his step kids entitled to what your mom buys for you? You didn't flaunt anything. If anything, you tried to keep it on the down low. He's the one who went through your phone.
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    Playstation
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    When will this ridiculous behavior on his part stop? Is he going to get mad if your mom pays for your college but not for his six step kids? Is he going to demand you don't go to college to make it
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    "fair"? Is he going to demand you can't get a car or buy a house because it's not "fair" that you're doing better than them?
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    Idkwhatttoputhere... NTA. I'm 24 and my younger brother is 17 now. Parents have been divorced since I was 12. My brother is the gamer. Whatever "toys" mom bought stayed at mom's period. Dad wants you to share so bad? Have him buy the family one.
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    chaingun_samurai This makes my dad go crazy about us being treated the same. Clearly the problem is that he needs to get a better paying job so that he can create the lifestyle that he believes his
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    horde of stepkids should have. He made the choice to marry a woman that gave birth to a basketball team plus an alternate. It's his problem.
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    Boy playing computer games
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    SockMaster9273 ΝΤΑ Mom bought the PS5. It stays at her house.
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    Also, you weren't flaunting. You kept it hidden from them. You never told them. That is the opposite of flaunting.
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    Final thought on the subject, My brother has a PS5. It's not the most portable devise out there.
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    WindowPixie Everyone else here is right, plus: Large, expensive electronics do not like to travel. Putting that thing in a backpack and ferrying it back and forth between houses is guaranteed to shorten it's
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    lifespan like crazy, even if nothing gets spilled on it/ it never gets dropped. I doubt your dad will replace it if something bad happens to it in transit or at his house so yeah no. Hard no, POPS.
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    eta, also if he did replace it, bet it would be 'his' afterwards so yeah, again, hard pass

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